"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm talking to a woman who is constantly saying nice things about me. How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.

She seems nice and laid back and I'm wondering has anybody any experiance of women who compliment them often? I just respond with a thank you and give her a compliment back the odd time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.

slaog said:
How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.
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What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
 
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Go with it, lap it up, but don't start to 'believe your own publicity' too much as it were. As usual, screen for LSE/BPD/general craziness but if it aint broke, don't fix it!

Also, have some confidence. Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want!
 
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DJDamage said:
I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.
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I'm on guard myself. She said herself she's afraid of commitment but I'm not planning anything long term with her myself so I'm not bothered by that.

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What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
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This weekend. We swapped numbers last night. I think she wanted to swap numbers sunday night but I made her wait! I have a date lined up for friday and want to see if thats still on.


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Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want
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Yeah big time. I'm getting a better understanding of what attracts women so all the time and effort is starting to pay off. I just look at my behaviour last year and find theres a big difference now. If I can do it theres hope for us all..

Actually I've another girl thats praising me and giving me compliments too! They both were impressed that I don't want to just talk about sex! The funny thing is I then started talking about it with the other girl and she was telling me the things she liked! lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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