"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women who praise you

slaog

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I'm talking to a woman who is constantly saying nice things about me. How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.

She seems nice and laid back and I'm wondering has anybody any experiance of women who compliment them often? I just respond with a thank you and give her a compliment back the odd time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage

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I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.

slaog said:
How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.
What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
 

BadsnakeUK

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Go with it, lap it up, but don't start to 'believe your own publicity' too much as it were. As usual, screen for LSE/BPD/general craziness but if it aint broke, don't fix it!

Also, have some confidence. Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want!
 

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DJDamage said:
I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.
I'm on guard myself. She said herself she's afraid of commitment but I'm not planning anything long term with her myself so I'm not bothered by that.

DJDamage said:
What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
This weekend. We swapped numbers last night. I think she wanted to swap numbers sunday night but I made her wait! I have a date lined up for friday and want to see if thats still on.


BadsnakeUK said:
Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want
Yeah big time. I'm getting a better understanding of what attracts women so all the time and effort is starting to pay off. I just look at my behaviour last year and find theres a big difference now. If I can do it theres hope for us all..

Actually I've another girl thats praising me and giving me compliments too! They both were impressed that I don't want to just talk about sex! The funny thing is I then started talking about it with the other girl and she was telling me the things she liked! lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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