"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm talking to a woman who is constantly saying nice things about me. How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.

She seems nice and laid back and I'm wondering has anybody any experiance of women who compliment them often? I just respond with a thank you and give her a compliment back the odd time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.

slaog said:
How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.
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What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
 
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Go with it, lap it up, but don't start to 'believe your own publicity' too much as it were. As usual, screen for LSE/BPD/general craziness but if it aint broke, don't fix it!

Also, have some confidence. Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want!
 
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DJDamage said:
I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.
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I'm on guard myself. She said herself she's afraid of commitment but I'm not planning anything long term with her myself so I'm not bothered by that.

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What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
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This weekend. We swapped numbers last night. I think she wanted to swap numbers sunday night but I made her wait! I have a date lined up for friday and want to see if thats still on.


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Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want
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Yeah big time. I'm getting a better understanding of what attracts women so all the time and effort is starting to pay off. I just look at my behaviour last year and find theres a big difference now. If I can do it theres hope for us all..

Actually I've another girl thats praising me and giving me compliments too! They both were impressed that I don't want to just talk about sex! The funny thing is I then started talking about it with the other girl and she was telling me the things she liked! lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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