"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women who like to imagine enemies, and imagine victory over those enemies

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Strange title I know, but bear with me

I'm friends with a married couple (knew both of them before they hooked up) he's a genuinely good guy. she's alright but can be a bit of a controlling/attention seeker type (still not the worst type of basket case you'd run into) Let's call her Jane

So anyway, Jane loves to post pictures of herself on facebook and talk about how wonderful her life is and such....but another thing I've noticed that she does is imagine herself as some sort of target for other women. As if they really care what this 6.5/10 suburban tax attorney is doing. As if they're jealous of her

Some of her statuses include

"Just gonna turn the other cheek and let the hate roll off"

"Not gonna let the haters get to me..."

"Spring in my step today, haters B-GONE!"

ummmm. I do not know a single person who has an ounce of hate for Jane. She generally has a good circle of friends.

It's almost as if some people think that they are the main character of some grand novel, and their life must contain enemies that they must come in contact with and defeat.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If a tax attorney is posting childish 16-year-old-tier crap like that on Facebook, I'm curious as to what compelled him to marry her in the first place.
 

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thatfeel said:
If a tax attorney is posting childish 16-year-old-tier crap like that on Facebook, I'm curious as to what compelled him to marry her in the first place.
good question. She's not really a catch, and she has quite the ego.

nonetheless, I've seen worse. She is faithful
 
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