"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women who like to imagine enemies, and imagine victory over those enemies

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Strange title I know, but bear with me

I'm friends with a married couple (knew both of them before they hooked up) he's a genuinely good guy. she's alright but can be a bit of a controlling/attention seeker type (still not the worst type of basket case you'd run into) Let's call her Jane

So anyway, Jane loves to post pictures of herself on facebook and talk about how wonderful her life is and such....but another thing I've noticed that she does is imagine herself as some sort of target for other women. As if they really care what this 6.5/10 suburban tax attorney is doing. As if they're jealous of her

Some of her statuses include

"Just gonna turn the other cheek and let the hate roll off"

"Not gonna let the haters get to me..."

"Spring in my step today, haters B-GONE!"

ummmm. I do not know a single person who has an ounce of hate for Jane. She generally has a good circle of friends.

It's almost as if some people think that they are the main character of some grand novel, and their life must contain enemies that they must come in contact with and defeat.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If a tax attorney is posting childish 16-year-old-tier crap like that on Facebook, I'm curious as to what compelled him to marry her in the first place.
 

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thatfeel said:
If a tax attorney is posting childish 16-year-old-tier crap like that on Facebook, I'm curious as to what compelled him to marry her in the first place.
good question. She's not really a catch, and she has quite the ego.

nonetheless, I've seen worse. She is faithful
 
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