"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women who like to imagine enemies, and imagine victory over those enemies

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Strange title I know, but bear with me

I'm friends with a married couple (knew both of them before they hooked up) he's a genuinely good guy. she's alright but can be a bit of a controlling/attention seeker type (still not the worst type of basket case you'd run into) Let's call her Jane

So anyway, Jane loves to post pictures of herself on facebook and talk about how wonderful her life is and such....but another thing I've noticed that she does is imagine herself as some sort of target for other women. As if they really care what this 6.5/10 suburban tax attorney is doing. As if they're jealous of her

Some of her statuses include

"Just gonna turn the other cheek and let the hate roll off"

"Not gonna let the haters get to me..."

"Spring in my step today, haters B-GONE!"

ummmm. I do not know a single person who has an ounce of hate for Jane. She generally has a good circle of friends.

It's almost as if some people think that they are the main character of some grand novel, and their life must contain enemies that they must come in contact with and defeat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If a tax attorney is posting childish 16-year-old-tier crap like that on Facebook, I'm curious as to what compelled him to marry her in the first place.
 

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thatfeel said:
If a tax attorney is posting childish 16-year-old-tier crap like that on Facebook, I'm curious as to what compelled him to marry her in the first place.
good question. She's not really a catch, and she has quite the ego.

nonetheless, I've seen worse. She is faithful
 
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