"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Women Who Improve With Age"

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Um, yea, not on a single one. And it's basically demonstrated by all those women having all but vanished from movies, tv, etc.
 

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"Women Who Have Gotten Hotter With Makeup and Plastic Surgery"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Milk that improve out of the fridge"

"Fish that improve on a stone under the sun"

Any more?
 

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Ninja Dude said:
Man some of you guys are truly cynical. YOu may want to reconsider this attitude - it is not attractive! (unless accompanied by sharp wit/humor as opposed to bitterness)

Proof that some women do improve with age: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eae3_LDysY8&feature=youtu.be
So a single woman who hit the gym with good results is enough to establish a rule or break an other one?
Btw nobody here is bitter or angry, we just like to make fun of this bvllsh1t statement they try to instill on us. :)
 

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in my experience, it depends on race. women with darker skin i find look more youthful than fair skinned women.

that's not to say a white mature woman cannot look good. but all things being equal, i'd take a mature Hispanic or black or Asian and bang her over that.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Um, yea, not on a single one. And it's basically demonstrated by all those women having all but vanished from movies, tv, etc.
I agree. All of those women were hotter when they were younger.

As for the 74 year old woman, I didn't watch the whole thing.
But I doubt that you can say she's more bangable now than when she was 21. She's 74, for pete's sake.
Now if I missed some part of the video that showed her at 300 pounds when she was 21, let me know. But who wants to bang a 74 year old woman, no matter how good a shape she's in?

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in my experience, it depends on race. women with darker skin i find look more youthful than fair skinned women.
Right, races with darker skin age better. I think I've read that it's because they have a higher oil content in their skin, keeps them moisturized.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It is true that we males provided we look after ourselves probably stay verile for longer however what isn't factored in is that very few women actually workout with weights to a significant degree. I go to a uni where I am one of many mature aged students and have notised many examples of women who are more attractive in their 30s, 40s and beyond. I would say that it is very possible for women to be hotter as they get older and as people live longer and more and more people workout, you will see far more of this.
 

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The only thing that "improves" with a woman's age is her ease of screwing. I do not blame or begrudge a man for dating older (ie 40-something) women because he wants to get laid easily. I've done it and will continue to do it. If you're looking to get laid on the first date and are looking for notches, then older women are great. I'm looking to hit my "40 by 40" mark (40 chicks by the time I'm 40 years old) and without older women that would be impossible for me.

But to think they "improve" is silly.
 

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That is not what I am saying at all. The thread says women who improve with age not all women. There is a big difference in the physique of a women who works out and one who does not, that is what I am getting at. Probably a good example would be female bodybuiders, or the fitness model types.
 

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So, lets see if I understand this; 12 photoshopped magazine pics of post-wall 'A' list actresses are a representative sample of the whole of female aging and beauty? And yet poor Jennifer Aniston is still childless and unmarried at 42 and cougariffic Demi Moore is in rehab for doing shots and whippets too often after divorcing from Ashton Kutcher. Hmmmm,...

One would think men would be lining up in droves to get with these jewels in the rough. It's so laughable to see the fem-centric meta-hamster spin its rationalization for itself in spite of reality.
 

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Men age like fine wine
Women age like milk
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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020204 said:
It is true that we males provided we look after ourselves probably stay verile for longer however what isn't factored in is that very few women actually workout with weights to a significant degree.
It's the faces, dude. By 26 or so their faces are FAR worse already than a 20 year old regardless of working out. A man actually looks better as it starts to look a bit weathered as he becomes a man. It declines eventually but before it does, it improves.

I notice this in every episode of Spartacus. They're all pretty much attractive but even the slight differences in age between some of the women on the show are OBVIOUS in their faces and it's even mentioned in the dialogue of the show as the 20 year old makes snarky references to it.
 

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I agree that we men get better, at 41 I don't have any greys and my physique is pretty tight, have notised guys who do deliberately die their hair grey often look really great and provided they aren't obese don't really loose their appeal with women. I can still think of some very hot women, in this age bracket although I will have to admit they are in the minority.
 

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020204 said:
I agree that we men get better, at 41 I don't have any greys and my physique is pretty tight, have notised guys who do deliberately die their hair grey often look really great and provided they aren't obese don't really loose their appeal with women. I can still think of some very hot women, in this age bracket although I will have to admit they are in the minority.
I get more compliments in my 50s than I ever got in my 20s.

I do know some pretty hot older women (in their 40s and even 50s). But the point is I'm sure they were way hotter when they were younger. I can't think of a single woman who was hotter when they were older than when they were younger. I'm sure there must be some out there, but I can't think of any examples.

You can't show me a picture of Demi Moore and tell me she's hotter now than when she was younger, because I know better.
 

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I would probably say nerdy girls do get better with age, I think they are a pretty good example. The reality is that not everyone has run their race in their early 20s.
 

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020204 said:
I would probably say nerdy girls do get better with age, I think they are a pretty good example. The reality is that not everyone has run their race in their early 20s.
I remember a lot of girls in high school who were considered not very attractive. Then a few years later wow! Their curves came in, they learned how to fix their hair, started wearing short shorts, and all of a sudden they were smoking hotties.

But I don't think that is what is being talked about here. When we're talking about "age", I think we're talking about women in their 40s or later, compared with in their 20s (or less). Sure, a girl might become more attractive from age 20 to 27. But look at her in her 40s, she's going to be hotter when she was younger, unless she was 300 lbs. or such.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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