You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
So a single woman who hit the gym with good results is enough to establish a rule or break an other one?Ninja Dude said:Man some of you guys are truly cynical. YOu may want to reconsider this attitude - it is not attractive! (unless accompanied by sharp wit/humor as opposed to bitterness)
Proof that some women do improve with age: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eae3_LDysY8&feature=youtu.be
I agree. All of those women were hotter when they were younger.mrRuckus said:Um, yea, not on a single one. And it's basically demonstrated by all those women having all but vanished from movies, tv, etc.
Right, races with darker skin age better. I think I've read that it's because they have a higher oil content in their skin, keeps them moisturized.ilikecharlene said:in my experience, it depends on race. women with darker skin i find look more youthful than fair skinned women.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's the faces, dude. By 26 or so their faces are FAR worse already than a 20 year old regardless of working out. A man actually looks better as it starts to look a bit weathered as he becomes a man. It declines eventually but before it does, it improves.020204 said:It is true that we males provided we look after ourselves probably stay verile for longer however what isn't factored in is that very few women actually workout with weights to a significant degree.
I get more compliments in my 50s than I ever got in my 20s.020204 said:I agree that we men get better, at 41 I don't have any greys and my physique is pretty tight, have notised guys who do deliberately die their hair grey often look really great and provided they aren't obese don't really loose their appeal with women. I can still think of some very hot women, in this age bracket although I will have to admit they are in the minority.
I remember a lot of girls in high school who were considered not very attractive. Then a few years later wow! Their curves came in, they learned how to fix their hair, started wearing short shorts, and all of a sudden they were smoking hotties.020204 said:I would probably say nerdy girls do get better with age, I think they are a pretty good example. The reality is that not everyone has run their race in their early 20s.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.