Master Don Juan
- Sep 20, 2007
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Hey Phyzzle,Phyzzle said:THE FLAKE IS NOT THE END OF THE ROAD.
Not on the first date anyways.
From Tyler Durden:
From Allen Thompson:
And this guy:
You don't have to do just what these guys say, but I have found their basic attitude extremely helpful.
I used to take flakes super personally myself, but I've gotten a lot more laid back about it recently, largely thanks to these guys.
Great Links. These articles make a great deal of sense. However, they are written with one outcome in mind, GETTING LAID. Of course, everyone has different goals.
I can agree with you on the point of CONFIDENT PERSISTANCE if my goal was to put more notches in my bed post. Why give up easily, if our mission is to sleep with MANY.
This is not my goal. My goal is to find the one most compatible with me.
Low IL women that need to be INJECTED with INTEREST by TACTICS will not reciprocate HIGH IL in the GENUINE you long-term.
My RAW experience has taught me if a woman shows HIGH IL in the REAL you, this relationship will endure the test of time.
All the great marriages of others and personal relationships of mine in the past have had HUGE sparks flying from the initial encounter. These Relationships PERSERVERE because high IL had IGNITED from the first encounter. I did not have to SELL myself and create an ARTIFICIAL frame to work from.
These are the kind of relationships that END only on your TERMS. (Your low IL)
The question might arise "How could you reasonably expect to bring an IL so high at an initial encounter that they will be eagerly anticipating your phone call."
Play the numbers game and you shall see. I rather sieve through a 1000 to find 10 HIGH IL's , then sieve through 100 to find 10 LOW IL's.
I am not a PUA. I am a filterer. I filter through the garbage to find the worthwhile. Who I choose to spend my time with has to be given careful consideration.
One of the fundamental roots of this consideration is HIGH IL.