If they're HB9 plus on OLD I usually figure it's a fake profile, or they're damaged, snobby goods and having to resort to using OLD because no guy puts up with them IRL for long periods. an HB9 Plus should not be near OLD. Same way, I don't even bother with them anymore. I did have that HB9.5 date back in July, literally the hottest one on match in the region at the time, but the worst personality I've ever seen. I can see why she's still on OLD daily. Not worth it.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Women who constantly view your profile on OLD but won't reply.
- Thread starter biggoal
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well she's looking at my profile again. I saw her online so I messaged her yesterday. She didn't reply but looked at my profile again. Then just this afternoon is again checking out my profile a couple of times. She was kinda playful back in Dec. when I joked with her about viewing my profile.
Sooo, how should I respond to her this time looking at me? I mean she must be on the fence or something. So obviously she sees something.
She seems shy from when I talked to her though. A school teacher and she told me she's having a hard time meeting young people where she lives which is a rich old persons town as well 50 miles from me. She's 30, never married as well, not 50.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
dont
Why not? I mean she keeps looking at me so shouldn't I initiate since something is triggering her interest to keep looking? The guy typically makes the first move.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
ok sport, you know best.
Anyway, you should just do what you are going to do. You will feel better.
Anyway, you should just do what you are going to do. You will feel better.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.