Women who constantly view your profile on OLD but won't reply.

[biggoal]

Why do women on OLD do this? Like for example just recently one chick viewed my profile. So I wrote a message. She read it and viewed my profile again. Didn't reply but then 2 hours later views it again. Then today she views it again so I sent a short reply joking about how she keeps looking at my profile. She reads the message and then once again views my profile.

I see other guys mention this from time to time on here too women how they will even look at them multiple times within a day but won't say anything.

Why the hell would they keep looking at the profile if they have no intention of writing you? Only thing I can think of is they're compared you to other profiles and then deciding which one to reply to.

I mean, when I don't find a woman interesting and have no intention of writing her I don't keep going back and viewing them if I'm not interested.

I did have an HB9 60 miles away who used to view my profile often whenever she logged on for example until I just finally wrote to her and just asked her if she was shy or something and she wrote back to me about not being able to meet young people where she lived and how she was uneasy of the idea of internet dating. Liberal though and said she was very shy of the idea. She hasn't been online in awhile.

 

[forcerecon01]

Maybe they are bored. They might use your profile picture to compare to others around your area.

 

[biggoal]

Maybe they are bored. They might use your profile picture to compare to others around your area.

Sorta like comparing sports stats I guess with baseball cards as one user put it lol.

This time of year seems the worst for OLD. Literally no new users or anything worth while it seems. It seems around Thanksgiving the quality and quantity reall drops off. Not even that many people online. Summer seems to be the best time.

 

[forcerecon01]

Don't let it affect your game. Originality is key with your online profile. They are constantly looking screening out men.

 

[Hal9000]

I know when I look at a woman's profile a few times its usually because they fall into the "close but not quite good enough" category.

 

[biggoal]

I know when I look at a woman's profile a few times its usually because they fall into the "close but not quite good enough" category.

She replied back to my email about checking my profile out a lot. She asked how can I see that and added a smiley gave at the end. She hasn't been online to read my reply yet. Shes separated so shes technically married still according to her profile. Looks like hb7 but uses iPhone six for her pics lol. The Joy's of old! More post wall damaged goods. Shes 40 Miles away too. Yea I message post wall 40 miles away lol.

 

[biggoal]

I know when I look at a woman's profile a few times its usually because they fall into the "close but not quite good enough" category.

Yep. Usually if they read your message or if you view their profile first and they view you back it at least means you caught their eye with your main profile pic. They're going to screen your actual profile content then and weed you out that way.

 

[SoSuave666]

Please ban this guy

 

[corrector]

Please ban this guy

No keep him here. You need a court jester.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

I sometimes view certain womens profiles more than once as they all blend together after awhile and I forget why I didn't like her enough to write her. Usually something turned me off but I forget what it was til I see her profile again

 

[biggoal]

I sometimes view certain womens profiles more than once as they all blend together after awhile and I forget why I didn't like her enough to write her. Usually something turned me off but I forget what it was til I see her profile again

Besides just looking at their photo do you read their profiles in detail? Even if they're hot if there is stuff you don't like on their profile do you decline to write them?

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

yeah I read all their profiles before I decide to write or not. If they live to far away, if they seem b*tchy, stupid or unreasonably picky in their profile I don't write them. If I just don't think we'd be a good match I don't write. The really pretty ones I seldom waste time on as I figure every chad on the site is hitting them up. For the most part I just let them come to me, im to busy keeping up my correspondences with the ones that are already interested to spend much time actually searching myself. Abundance mentality I guess, spinning 3 plates between now and xmas.

 

[MrWood]

Q: Topic
A: ever see a woman go shopping?

 

[biggoal]

I sometimes view certain womens profiles more than once as they all blend together after awhile and I forget why I didn't like her enough to write her. Usually something turned me off but I forget what it was til I see her profile again

Don't have to worry about that around here. I can do a 60 mile search radius and see the same handful of women everyday that you know what they all look like. I mean the 10 or so HB7 on up that are on there. Not very many so you can remember each face very easily.

 

[biggoal]

Well she replied back again when I asked her why she's a night owl and told me about the type of nurse she is and is working the night shift.

Sometimes that works. If they don't reply to your message but they check your profile out again. About a day later I'll send a short funny follow up message about looking at my profile and I tease them about being shy and over half the time that usually gets them to reply back but yet doesn't make me look needy. I'm going to bed soon so tomorrow I'll try and go and snag her number from her.

it seems OLD is similar to sports, especially baseball or hockey. Like you get lots of replies back for a few weeks but then you hit a massive cold streak where nothing seems to work then all of a sudden you get your mojo back and replies come back in. Hopefully I'm breaking out of the slump. Besides seeing nothing worthwhile on OLD I was talking to those other two chicks so I wasn't sending that many messages out and when I did I was half arsing them. That HB6 nurse hasn't talked to me for 5 days now so screw her I guess. The 50 year old still talks to me daily and while she's hesitant about the age, she's open about meeting anyway. I hope to get FWB out of her.

 

[biggoal]

Q: Topic
A: ever see a woman go shopping?

Yep. You wouldn't believe how they are owning a retail business. Like they might sit there 15 mins look at phone cases touching each one and they cant make up their mind which one to buy. Sometimes I'll offer the second one at a deep discount if they cant make up their minds so they dont walk away. Men are so much easier to sell to.

 

[MrWood]

You didnt get my meaning... reading your response.

over your head

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why are you worried about it. Obviously they aren't interested or on the fence. FYI you should treat on the fence as not interested.

 

[Atom Smasher]

When they do this, they are on the fence, and looking again and again to see if there is something they missed which will make them decide to want to chat with you. They are looking for a feeling.

When a woman asks you how you know she has been looking at your profile, the last thing you want to do is give her a straight answer. It’s a perfect time to be playful and deny her the answer.

Instead, you playfully claim a superpower which enables you to see what she’s doing online. You can even playfully call into question other sites she has visited (but don’t imply porn).

These are the things you need to pick up on.... opportunities to leverage mundane conversation into playful moments. This is what lights them up.

 

[biggoal]

When they do this, they are on the fence, and looking again and again to see if there is something they missed which will make them decide to want to chat with you. They are looking for a feeling.

When a woman asks you how you know she has been looking at your profile, the last thing you want to do is give her a straight answer. It’s a perfect time to be playful and deny her the answer.

Instead, you playfully claim a superpower which enables you to see what she’s doing online. You can even playfully call into question other sites she has visited (but don’t imply porn).

These are the things you need to pick up on.... opportunities to leverage mundane conversation into playful moments. This is what lights them up.

This one is about 40 to 45 miles away which might be a reason. Far away ones seem to do this more. As I said I message ones up to 60 miles away because literally no one in my county is on old unless its landwhales.

I know most say here im wasting time messaging ones more than 30 miles away but that's all I got to work with around here. I have had women straight up tell me distance is an issue. You can go for days on bumble without seeing anyone within 30 miles here it's that bad.

I was kinda on the fence with her too writing her. Iohone 6 selfies, separated and not officially divorced, and her pics none of them showing her teeth as well another red flag. If I see a girl who has no pics of her smile I worry too.