Women who complain "guys just want to get off"

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

This, IMO, is simply the grown up version of the 14 and 15 year olds who get boyfriends all the time because they will have sex. I am teaching my teenage daughter about this phenomenon currently. She sees girls in her school who are sexually active. These girls get passed from boy to boy to boy and get used and get bad reputations. My daughter thinks it is gross (it is) and sees that these girls get labeled as sluts early. It reeks of low to no self esteem and a behavior of trying to trade sex for love (because love is lacking in the lives of those girls.)

Show me a woman who says "All men want is sex!" and I'll show you a woman with a bad attitude who has nothing more to offer than sex...and she will get used constantly because sex is a commodity and if she has nothing else to bring to the table? She's going to get sex all the time...and not much else. Men eventually drop women who can only offer sex, no matter how hot they are. Women who trade just on their looks many times do not realize that men need more substance than just sex for a relationship. And they don't set about being better people.

Now. It is patently obvious that all men want sex. Duh. But that understanding is very different that the "all men want is sex" attitude. Women with more than sex to offer know to let the man see there is more to them than just sex. And women with more to offer than sex are really the sorts of women that men are more naturally drawn to. So sex becomes a part of the whole rather than the whole thing.

Sadly the things these women say (All men want is sex...Men only care about getting off...Men are selfish...etc. etc. etc.) simply indicates that these are women who are accustomed to being used and thrown away. They broadcast it without realizing that they are broadcasting it.

And then they wonder why it is that they continue to get used for just sex...and more jaded and all that stuff. Those are your future crazy cat ladies people. You can spot them a mile away. They tell you who they are.

 

[AttackFormation]

My thoughts on this coalesced into one sentence... women use men as self-medication. They use sex and the mirage of connection from lovers, and validation from orbiters/providers, to medicate their anxiety, depression and self-esteem. That's pretty much it.

 

[Ranger]

My thoughts on this coalesced into one sentence... women use men as self-medication. They use sex and the mirage of connection from lovers, and validation from orbiters/providers, to medicate their anxiety, depression and self-esteem. That's pretty much it.

I can agree with that. They are bored stiff.

 

[lamath]

Looking to get back to dating was looking at some OLD profile.
Prob wont make a real account i just see bad stuff.
So many profile are just trash its not even funny and im not talking about the pictures. I like to see how they describe themselves,all they write about demands, demands, demands. Seriously you are 35yo and stlii single i now see why.

Also full time mommy is not a job!!!!!
When i see that only thing i see is..........i have no education and no ambition and im looking for a man to pay everything for me......

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I usually hear it as "men are only after one thing."

But women are only after two things. Is that really that much better?

The ones that do that usually want to string men along for free attention and dates.

 

[AttackFormation]

Reminded of this topic again.

This girl has a picture posing for her mirror where her upper body is clothed, but she's literally showing off her bare legs and ass in a thong. Simultaneously, in her profile she says she's "really not interested in sex or anyone that immediately hits on me". And this isn't some 16 year old kid with snapchat filters in every picture, she's 26 without any filters or spelling errors or whatever at all.

What the fvck is this?

 

[Ranger]

Reminded of this topic again.

This girl has a picture posing for her mirror where her upper body is clothed, but she's literally showing off her bare legs and ass in a thong. Simultaneously, in her profile she says she's "really not interested in sex or anyone that immediately hits on me". And this isn't some 16 year old kid with snapchat filters in every picture, she's 26 without any filters or spelling errors or whatever at all.

What the fvck is this?

A comic strip?

 

[Bible_Belt]

This is an example of how being logically correct is not productive. You are right; she is ridiculous. But there is nothing that can be done about it. Women, and people in general, say stupid sh!t all the time. You can't fix these people by calling them out on their behavior. Nothing will change.

 

[AttackFormation]

This is an example of how being logically correct is not productive. You are right; she is ridiculous. But there is nothing that can be done about it. Women, and people in general, say stupid sh!t all the time. You can't fix these people by calling them out on their behavior. Nothing will change.

I agree BB, I don't expect anyone to be logical. I am just interested in why she does this, and what's going on in her head when she does it?

 

[Bible_Belt]

what's going on in her head when she does it?

"Dear men of the world, please stop using me as your cvm dumpster...unless I am in the mood."

 

[Ranger]

Write her and ask her... does this mean you are a good good girl and have less than two partners. After all, I wouldn’t want to risk myself with a natural born Slvt. “
Lol

 

[AttackFormation]

"Dear men of the world, please stop using me as your cvm dumpster...unless I am in the mood."

Sounds remarkably true as a descriptor for women in general, haha...

 

[MatureDJ]

Guys lacking look get friendzoned and girls lacking personality get fvck buddy zoned.

This statement is profound.

 

[kbbroiler1971]

Ok here is the thing with women. The act on emotion so when they are posting these pictures they are looking for validation but they are on this constant back and forth push pull in their mind complaining that men are only wanting to get off. In reality, they don't want men they are not attracted to get off. However, the men they see as attractive they want them to objectify them. Posting pictures online is a fair game that they don't see. If a 6 figure or a millionaire are into them, the objectifying is good. A normal guy who has low SMV is how dare you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The thread title makes me get the song stuck in my head, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, except the words are "Guys just want to get off."