"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women using Fakebook to train men?

jc_80

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Constantly seeing posts about what real men do and what it takes to keep a woman, how to kick a man down who doesn't worship your $hitty attitude, etc., never about how to make the man happy. And I haven't really seen men put this kinda stuff up on FB but I've even seen them " like" it, many times their boyfriend or some orbiter who likes everything she does on FB.

Not sure what my point is. Guess I'm just wondering if you all think men just aren't petty enough to engage about that $hit or if it's our culture. Really tired of how women seem selfish about relationships but they always play it like they're the victims - he broke my heart because he wasn't being ambitious for us so he obviously took me for granted
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BetterCallSaul

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Every thread I see, as I've stated before, I'm throwing out a disapproval rating. Nothing against you personally OP, but men today f*cking need to realize that Facebook is hurting us overall in the long run. The very fact there are so many damn threads these days asking for advice on how to deal with some kind of facebook scenario with some attention wh*ring broad demonstrates and proves this decline.

The advice many of the 'old timers' give here is very valid. You see some chick you think is hot, go talk to her. Don't start d!cking around asking to text, or if she's on tinder, or introduce her to your email address. Do it right by face-to-face interaction and then introduce her to your c0ck later.
 

VladPatton

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Reduce the importance of social media bullsh!t and you'll be a happier mofo. Treat it as mindless entertainment.

You dont have memorials for the people you run over in GTA5, right? Facebook vomit has just as much importance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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taiyuu_otoko

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BetterCallSaul said:
The advice many of the 'old timers' give here is very valid. You see some chick you think is hot, go talk to her. Don't start d!cking around asking to text, or if she's on tinder, or introduce her to your email address.
Repped.
 

Desdinova

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( . )( . ) said:
Are there even any men left on fagbook? I thought the only ones still using it were chicks, queers, children and Gollum here
Facebook is a really good tool to increase attraction if you use it properly. Posting funny stuff that YOU came up with (as opposed to sharing other people's stuff) is always a winner. Also, women will read into EVERYTHING you post on facebook. Posting one of your favorite songs without explanation LIKE THIS ONE will get her hamster spinning.
 

Married Buried

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I thought this manager guy at work was a cool alpha for years... then I find his facebook page and see him venting his emotional drivel over the facebook.. Alpha respect GONE. He plays up a nice alpha on the job but is a facebook b!tch on the side for all to see. I guess it is acceptable nowadays.
 
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