"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women using Fakebook to train men?

jc_80

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Constantly seeing posts about what real men do and what it takes to keep a woman, how to kick a man down who doesn't worship your $hitty attitude, etc., never about how to make the man happy. And I haven't really seen men put this kinda stuff up on FB but I've even seen them " like" it, many times their boyfriend or some orbiter who likes everything she does on FB.

Not sure what my point is. Guess I'm just wondering if you all think men just aren't petty enough to engage about that $hit or if it's our culture. Really tired of how women seem selfish about relationships but they always play it like they're the victims - he broke my heart because he wasn't being ambitious for us so he obviously took me for granted
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BetterCallSaul

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Every thread I see, as I've stated before, I'm throwing out a disapproval rating. Nothing against you personally OP, but men today f*cking need to realize that Facebook is hurting us overall in the long run. The very fact there are so many damn threads these days asking for advice on how to deal with some kind of facebook scenario with some attention wh*ring broad demonstrates and proves this decline.

The advice many of the 'old timers' give here is very valid. You see some chick you think is hot, go talk to her. Don't start d!cking around asking to text, or if she's on tinder, or introduce her to your email address. Do it right by face-to-face interaction and then introduce her to your c0ck later.
 

VladPatton

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Reduce the importance of social media bullsh!t and you'll be a happier mofo. Treat it as mindless entertainment.

You dont have memorials for the people you run over in GTA5, right? Facebook vomit has just as much importance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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taiyuu_otoko

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BetterCallSaul said:
The advice many of the 'old timers' give here is very valid. You see some chick you think is hot, go talk to her. Don't start d!cking around asking to text, or if she's on tinder, or introduce her to your email address.
Repped.
 

Desdinova

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( . )( . ) said:
Are there even any men left on fagbook? I thought the only ones still using it were chicks, queers, children and Gollum here
Facebook is a really good tool to increase attraction if you use it properly. Posting funny stuff that YOU came up with (as opposed to sharing other people's stuff) is always a winner. Also, women will read into EVERYTHING you post on facebook. Posting one of your favorite songs without explanation LIKE THIS ONE will get her hamster spinning.
 

Married Buried

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I thought this manager guy at work was a cool alpha for years... then I find his facebook page and see him venting his emotional drivel over the facebook.. Alpha respect GONE. He plays up a nice alpha on the job but is a facebook b!tch on the side for all to see. I guess it is acceptable nowadays.
 
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