"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women using Fakebook to train men?

jc_80

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Constantly seeing posts about what real men do and what it takes to keep a woman, how to kick a man down who doesn't worship your $hitty attitude, etc., never about how to make the man happy. And I haven't really seen men put this kinda stuff up on FB but I've even seen them " like" it, many times their boyfriend or some orbiter who likes everything she does on FB.

Not sure what my point is. Guess I'm just wondering if you all think men just aren't petty enough to engage about that $hit or if it's our culture. Really tired of how women seem selfish about relationships but they always play it like they're the victims - he broke my heart because he wasn't being ambitious for us so he obviously took me for granted
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BetterCallSaul

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Every thread I see, as I've stated before, I'm throwing out a disapproval rating. Nothing against you personally OP, but men today f*cking need to realize that Facebook is hurting us overall in the long run. The very fact there are so many damn threads these days asking for advice on how to deal with some kind of facebook scenario with some attention wh*ring broad demonstrates and proves this decline.

The advice many of the 'old timers' give here is very valid. You see some chick you think is hot, go talk to her. Don't start d!cking around asking to text, or if she's on tinder, or introduce her to your email address. Do it right by face-to-face interaction and then introduce her to your c0ck later.
 

VladPatton

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Reduce the importance of social media bullsh!t and you'll be a happier mofo. Treat it as mindless entertainment.

You dont have memorials for the people you run over in GTA5, right? Facebook vomit has just as much importance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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taiyuu_otoko

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BetterCallSaul said:
The advice many of the 'old timers' give here is very valid. You see some chick you think is hot, go talk to her. Don't start d!cking around asking to text, or if she's on tinder, or introduce her to your email address.
Repped.
 

Desdinova

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( . )( . ) said:
Are there even any men left on fagbook? I thought the only ones still using it were chicks, queers, children and Gollum here
Facebook is a really good tool to increase attraction if you use it properly. Posting funny stuff that YOU came up with (as opposed to sharing other people's stuff) is always a winner. Also, women will read into EVERYTHING you post on facebook. Posting one of your favorite songs without explanation LIKE THIS ONE will get her hamster spinning.
 

Married Buried

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I thought this manager guy at work was a cool alpha for years... then I find his facebook page and see him venting his emotional drivel over the facebook.. Alpha respect GONE. He plays up a nice alpha on the job but is a facebook b!tch on the side for all to see. I guess it is acceptable nowadays.
 
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