"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women treat men who look similar to them like chit.

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So I have an ethnically ambiguous look but really I am an Eastern European guy who tans easily and has dark hair. Over the years, I started to notice something.

Pale women (natural blondes, redheads, and pale brunettes), Black women, darker Indian girls (like ones who look black), and to a degree Asian girls have been really nice to me. Dating and seducing them has been easier but even on a social level, I get better treatment from them. In a work setting, a black girl or a blonde will always vouch for me and have my back. I even got a promotion a year ago at a corporate job because this hot midwestern blonde was my champion at work.

On the flip side you have Latinas and I usually have really bad experiences like them, like iced out and overall bad experiences.

I have even worse experiences with Arab and Middle Eastern girls who give me the look of disgust, when I grow a beard some even tell me "eww you look Arab"...wtf.

The worst experience? Olive skinned and dark-haired white girls, without a doubt. I feel like I get auto-rejected by women with this kind of a look at nightclubs to where I do not even bother to go for them anymore.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff

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It's some LMS shyt. There are women of different schools of thought.
 

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So I have an ethnically ambiguous look but really I am an Eastern European guy who tans easily and has dark hair. Over the years, I started to notice something.

Pale women (natural blondes, redheads, and pale brunettes), Black women, darker Indian girls (like ones who look black), and to a degree Asian girls have been really nice to me. Dating and seducing them has been easier but even on a social level, I get better treatment from them. In a work setting, a black girl or a blonde will always vouch for me and have my back. I even got a promotion a year ago at a corporate job because this hot midwestern blonde was my champion at work.

On the flip side you have Latinas and I usually have really bad experiences like them, like iced out and overall bad experiences.

I have even worse experiences with Arab and Middle Eastern girls who give me the look of disgust, when I grow a beard some even tell me "eww you look Arab"...wtf.

The worst experience? Olive skinned and dark-haired white girls, without a doubt. I feel like I get auto-rejected by women with this kind of a look at nightclubs to where I do not even bother to go for them anymore.

This is true for all things that procreate sexually. Animal's brain wired to select a mate not too close to it, but also not too far from it genetically.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SoSuave666

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I am a 6’1 Irish dude that is pale as fvck (I truly to tan and spend lots of time outside) and I do REALLY well with ethnic girls.

polarity is strong. Arguably the number one variable in game
 
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