Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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bigjohnson said:
I'm not that excited by non-sexual nudity and I agree with you.
Yeah me too. At my age I need a little more visual stimulation. I'm not 15 anymore and the sight of "BOOBIES!!!" doesn't get me off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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edger said:
Absolutely..."social rearing" plays a big part in the development of people in a lot of ways. Those who are weak will succumb to it(social rearing).
Haha, spoken like a tr00 metalhead :rockon:
 

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shop until I die! said:
Yeah me too. At my age I need a little more visual stimulation. I'm not 15 anymore and the sight of "BOOBIES!!!" doesn't get me off.

I'm not sure it's so much age as experience. I've seen 'em before, a lot, and while I can appreciate the aesthetic value of a nice pair I also don't get stiff when I see a beautiful sunset.

This is part of a more fundamental discussion about appreciating beauty outside sexual attraction really.

Back to experience, I've learnt that women's bodies are sexy all over in the right circumstances and outside those circumstances specific parts society has deemed fit to be covered are not intrinsically connected to anything sexual that involves me.

In plain English, just because she's topless doesn't mean you're gonna get to feel her up, so get over it and get on with whatever you were doing.
 

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shop until I die! said:
Yeah me too. At my age I need a little more visual stimulation. I'm not 15 anymore and the sight of "BOOBIES!!!" doesn't get me off.

it's not really about being immature persay. but for some people it might be offensive. just like seeing people have sex in the middle of the street may be seen as offensive by most people. we all dont wana see some random woman taking it up the butt at mcdaonalds. no matter how mature we are. it might not get me off, but i dont wanna see it.

i for one dont wanna go around seeing some 90 year olds flabby tits out of nowhere.
 

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As long as they make me a sammich when they're done...I'm okay with it. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let's get down to brass tacks here; the only people bothered by the sight of naked breasts are women with less than ideal figures.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Let's get down to brass tacks here; the only people bothered by the sight of naked breasts are women with less than ideal figures.
i agree man but i wouldn't to see a bunch of fat chicks and 90 yrs olds "expressing there freedom"
 
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Rollo Tomassi said:
Let's get down to brass tacks here; the only people bothered by the sight of naked breasts are women with less than ideal figures.
Amen
 

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Mr. Wolf said:
I think we should stop hating women so much. In our misogynistic society, it's enough that we hate women for being women.
Why did you post this exact thing in that other post, Secondly wtf are you talking about?

Mr. Wolf said:
If I see a topless girl I think she's beautiful and very generous..
"Generous"?? Huh..

Mr. Wolf said:
I gurantee you, your experience will leave you feeling so beautiful and accepted, you'd want to do it in your own town.
Wtf is this sh!t?

X-ecution said:
what are your views?
Who cares, chicks are too self conscious for this to catch on anyways so it's a moot point. Besides its Sweden bro, Sweden pretty much runs neck and neck with Canada in the "liberated" women/faggoty men (whichever way you look at it) race.
 

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Guys it's already legal in New York but no-one does it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks do it all over Europe. It's not such a big deal.
They just want to make sure their breasts also get a tan.
If you don't like what you see, you should't go to the beach, look the other way or don't complain about it.
 

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Yeah in Europe it's quite common for women to sunbathe topless. It's great when a hottie rolls up and strips beside you. Then you get bored after about five minutes.
 

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What! I didn't know chicks didn't sun-bake topless in America. I thought you were talking, walking around the street.

They're everywhere in Australia.
 

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Yeah in Europe it's quite common for women to sunbathe topless. It's great when a hottie rolls up and strips beside you. Then you get bored after about five minutes...
And you slide your **** between those two nice-looking boobies :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The notion that women shouldn't be allowed to be topless in public where guys are is stupid to me. It's the one place I become a feminist.

That's not just my penis talking either. Just a happy coincidence.
 
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