"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women topless?

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bigjohnson said:
I'm not that excited by non-sexual nudity and I agree with you.
Yeah me too. At my age I need a little more visual stimulation. I'm not 15 anymore and the sight of "BOOBIES!!!" doesn't get me off.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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edger said:
Absolutely..."social rearing" plays a big part in the development of people in a lot of ways. Those who are weak will succumb to it(social rearing).
Haha, spoken like a tr00 metalhead :rockon:
 

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shop until I die! said:
Yeah me too. At my age I need a little more visual stimulation. I'm not 15 anymore and the sight of "BOOBIES!!!" doesn't get me off.

I'm not sure it's so much age as experience. I've seen 'em before, a lot, and while I can appreciate the aesthetic value of a nice pair I also don't get stiff when I see a beautiful sunset.

This is part of a more fundamental discussion about appreciating beauty outside sexual attraction really.

Back to experience, I've learnt that women's bodies are sexy all over in the right circumstances and outside those circumstances specific parts society has deemed fit to be covered are not intrinsically connected to anything sexual that involves me.

In plain English, just because she's topless doesn't mean you're gonna get to feel her up, so get over it and get on with whatever you were doing.
 

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shop until I die! said:
Yeah me too. At my age I need a little more visual stimulation. I'm not 15 anymore and the sight of "BOOBIES!!!" doesn't get me off.

it's not really about being immature persay. but for some people it might be offensive. just like seeing people have sex in the middle of the street may be seen as offensive by most people. we all dont wana see some random woman taking it up the butt at mcdaonalds. no matter how mature we are. it might not get me off, but i dont wanna see it.

i for one dont wanna go around seeing some 90 year olds flabby tits out of nowhere.
 

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As long as they make me a sammich when they're done...I'm okay with it. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let's get down to brass tacks here; the only people bothered by the sight of naked breasts are women with less than ideal figures.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Let's get down to brass tacks here; the only people bothered by the sight of naked breasts are women with less than ideal figures.
i agree man but i wouldn't to see a bunch of fat chicks and 90 yrs olds "expressing there freedom"
 
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Rollo Tomassi said:
Let's get down to brass tacks here; the only people bothered by the sight of naked breasts are women with less than ideal figures.
Amen
 

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Mr. Wolf said:
I think we should stop hating women so much. In our misogynistic society, it's enough that we hate women for being women.
Why did you post this exact thing in that other post, Secondly wtf are you talking about?

Mr. Wolf said:
If I see a topless girl I think she's beautiful and very generous..
"Generous"?? Huh..

Mr. Wolf said:
I gurantee you, your experience will leave you feeling so beautiful and accepted, you'd want to do it in your own town.
Wtf is this sh!t?

X-ecution said:
what are your views?
Who cares, chicks are too self conscious for this to catch on anyways so it's a moot point. Besides its Sweden bro, Sweden pretty much runs neck and neck with Canada in the "liberated" women/faggoty men (whichever way you look at it) race.
 

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Guys it's already legal in New York but no-one does it!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chicks do it all over Europe. It's not such a big deal.
They just want to make sure their breasts also get a tan.
If you don't like what you see, you should't go to the beach, look the other way or don't complain about it.
 

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Yeah in Europe it's quite common for women to sunbathe topless. It's great when a hottie rolls up and strips beside you. Then you get bored after about five minutes.
 

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What! I didn't know chicks didn't sun-bake topless in America. I thought you were talking, walking around the street.

They're everywhere in Australia.
 

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Yeah in Europe it's quite common for women to sunbathe topless. It's great when a hottie rolls up and strips beside you. Then you get bored after about five minutes...
And you slide your **** between those two nice-looking boobies :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The notion that women shouldn't be allowed to be topless in public where guys are is stupid to me. It's the one place I become a feminist.

That's not just my penis talking either. Just a happy coincidence.
 
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