Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree.I've read a little bit on female dating strategy these days, when we had insane discussions here with a member who exposed Sosuave there.
Came over this thread...
https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy...to-a-vasectomy-first?origin=member_posts_page
What baffled me the most, was the comment section. Not a single member posted something against it.
I've never read something disgusting like that on any mens forum.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Na, they just frequently popup in the feed.OP, you follow clown world on twitter?
That was a truly horrible woman. Scariest thing was how she trojan horsed her self into the forum, making men stumble over each other to give her validation. Lord knows with hiw many women I say down while I was completely oblivious how viscous they can be, all the while I 100%believed in Disney fantasies.I've read a little bit on female dating strategy these days, when we had insane discussions here with a member who exposed Sosuave there.
Came over this thread...
https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy...to-a-vasectomy-first?origin=member_posts_page
What baffled me the most, was the comment section. Not a single member posted something against it.
I've never read something disgusting like that on any mens forum.
He was right for having a vasectomy.Nah, can't blame the woman...the man got married to this wacko, and then had a vasectomy, so he must have mush for brains.