“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women spending a long time in the bathroom

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When women spend a long time in the bathroom while you're out with them for the first time, does this mean they're trying to "kill time" because they're not that into you?? That's what I would think. I don't know though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Demodulate

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they are on the phone figuring out how to bail, or doing drugs....

or else maybe she had the sh!ts...
 

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Does she come out of the bathroom with vomit stains on her dress or white powder on her upper lip?

Is she disrespecting you but making you wait that extra day while she drowns herself in hair spray?

If it is harmless then who cares

In my experience women spend more time in the bathroom in men and usually for grooming purposes

There's always time to wonder after she starts letting herself go and stops feeling compelled to look good for you anymore


Kaine
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes, if she spends alot of time in the bathroom it is usually a good sign since she is making the effort to look good for you.
 

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Sapphire is right.

It's more psycological than anything. She probably wanted to look nice for you so it took a little longer. The funny thing is, she would have probably looked the same if she finished up earlier.. lmao.
 

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did you see "Unfaithful"?
Make sure it isn't that. ;-)

regards

mike
 

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Originally posted by sapphire
Yes, if she spends alot of time in the bathroom it is usually a good sign since she is making the effort to look good for you.
I agree 100%

-Al
 

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the bathroom is a sanctuary for women. she's probably talking sh!t about you, or calling up other guys, or her chick friends. half of the time, they go to the bathroom without even having to take a wee wee or drop a doo doo.

maybe she's "refunding", as in sienfeld?

what i don't understand is how woman can use so much fukking toilet paper. i had two over here the other night, my sister and a friend. between them, they went through a fresh roll in one night! i told them i was gonna start charging them for it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by persistent exaction
did you see "Unfaithful"?
Make sure it isn't that. ;-)

regards

mike
No, I've never seen it...what's it about??
 

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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
the bathroom is a sanctuary for women. she's probably talking sh!t about you, or calling up other guys, or her chick friends. half of the time, they go to the bathroom without even having to take a wee wee or drop a doo doo.

maybe she's "refunding", as in sienfeld?

what i don't understand is how woman can use so much fukking toilet paper. i had two over here the other night, my sister and a friend. between them, they went through a fresh roll in one night! i told them i was gonna start charging them for it.
Yeah, I'd be more apt to believing that. I never even got a kiss goodbye, only a hug that night..although I did have my arm around her a few times during the night..she didn't try to pull away or anything, and she was massaging my hand. Who the hell knows.
 

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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick

what i don't understand is how woman can use so much fukking toilet paper. i had two over here the other night, my sister and a friend. between them, they went through a fresh roll in one night! i told them i was gonna start charging them for it.
I find it funny too... If I have a girlfriend I can go through an entire package in a week or two. If I am on my own one lasts me for months.

But...

Do you wipe your penis after you urinate? Well, they do. Remember, their urinary tract and vagina are damn close to their anus. Fecal matter is a bastian of bacteria and and other bad things. If any of that gets into the urinary tract or vagina they're in for a world of hurt. Thus a lot of wiping and cleaning. Femanine hygene is infinatly more technical and necessary then male. Now you know why all the girls had to go to that meeting in the gymnasium back when you were in gradeschool.

They also use toilet paper a lot when applying and fixing makeup.

But then again, they may know it pisses you off so they may just be dumping half the roll down the toilet to get a raise out of ya. :)

-Al
 

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Do you wipe your penis after you urinate? Well, they do. Remember, their urinary tract and vagina are damn close to their anus. Fecal matter is a bastian of bacteria and and other bad things. If any of that gets into the urinary tract or vagina they're in for a world of hurt. Thus a lot of wiping and cleaning. Femanine hygene is infinatly more technical and necessary then male. Now you know why all the girls had to go to that meeting in the gymnasium back when you were in gradeschool.
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"anus", "fecal matter", "other bad things", "bastian of bacteria", "alot of wiping and cleaning"...

and women have the nerve to call men gross! lol.
 

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i'm with you too cold !!
chicks need to travel with their own toilet paper !!
it should be law of the land !

frat is back !!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
i'm with you too cold !!
chicks need to travel with their own toilet paper !!
it should be law of the land !

frat is back !!
i remember you. weren't you posting on my original "earnest borgnine" thread?
 

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THIS IS HAS HAPPENED TO ME ONCE, I WAS ON A DATE WITH A WOMAN SHE WAS IN THE BATHROOM FOR LONG PERIOD TIME. SO I STARTED TO THINK THERE WAS SOMETHING UP, I ALMOST LEFT HER THEY, WE MET IN SERPERATE CARS. COME TO FIND OUT SHE WAS ON THE PHONE AND STARTED TO CRY TO TELL ME ABOUT, I BAILES SOON AFTER, BUT MOST OF THE TIME THERE IN THERE FOR SOMEONE WHO ALREADY STATED FOR GROOMING PURPOSES, I BEEN ON THOUSANDS OF DATES, THAT ONLY HAPPENED TO ME ONCE. GOOD LUCK
 
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