You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What exactly do you say? Are you coming right up and asking them for their number, what setting are you in (Bar, Club, Library)?Brian Griffin said:I\\\'ve approached a lot of women, and the response I usually get is something of \\\"Sorry, I don\\\'t give my numbers out to players.\\\" Another one said \\\"How many girls number have you asked for today?\\\" They somehow know.
Is there a way to avoid this?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Again, finally someone that subscribes to the way I play the game... # = uselessStop asking for numbers.
No, seriously. Your goal isn't to collect phone numbers, it's to fvck (either a GF or lots of women, doesn't matter). Instead of chatting for 2 minutes and asking for a phone number, attract her, build rapport, and set up a "date" on the spot. A phone number is just a way to get in contact - it's totally unnecessary to seduction. Of course this is over simplified, but it's something you should look into more.