She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What exactly do you say? Are you coming right up and asking them for their number, what setting are you in (Bar, Club, Library)?Brian Griffin said:I\\\'ve approached a lot of women, and the response I usually get is something of \\\"Sorry, I don\\\'t give my numbers out to players.\\\" Another one said \\\"How many girls number have you asked for today?\\\" They somehow know.
Is there a way to avoid this?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Again, finally someone that subscribes to the way I play the game... # = uselessStop asking for numbers.
No, seriously. Your goal isn't to collect phone numbers, it's to fvck (either a GF or lots of women, doesn't matter). Instead of chatting for 2 minutes and asking for a phone number, attract her, build rapport, and set up a "date" on the spot. A phone number is just a way to get in contact - it's totally unnecessary to seduction. Of course this is over simplified, but it's something you should look into more.