"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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women playing their games, opinions/advice needed

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I'm sending thsi out for some advice or opinions.
I met a girl a couple days back, played the ****y and funny thing well, didn't make myself available, wasn't clingy, an set things up for a drink at a local pub in the future. Today she acts like I don't even exist, and her and her friend tell my roomate to come over to their room to study, purposefully discluding me (I'm at the same table when they say this!). Oh, women and their games! I know they're trying to play headgames with me, and I know the only way I lose is if I let it affect me. I'm going to the pub anyway to have a blast. So here's what I need advice on from some DJs out there - what should my next move be? Should I act like nothin happened and show up at her room to take her out (provng I'm above her petty mind games)or should I dump her and move on? I'm at a college, so it ain't like the pickins are slim, but yet I'd lik this to turn out well for me, even if just a lesson learned. Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You need to be a Man and forget about the broad and go have fun. If you really really need an answer you need to simply ask what the hell is going on. Since she is a Woman she may be nervous to see if you are still intereted since you were acting uninterested. I mean think about you are suppose to be "the Man" and you are acting scared what do you think she is feeling. Be a Man and see if she still wants to go out and if she says no tell her off and go about your business.

Lesson learned.
STOP ACTING LIKE THESE CHICKS ARE YOUR MOTHER AND YOU NEED PERMISSION FROM THEM TO ACT.

MAN UP!
 
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If you say that pickings "aren't slim" then why fuss over this one chick? If a girl doesn't want to go do something fun with you, who cares, there are plenty of other people you can have fun with.
 
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good advice, gents. A new perspective is always welcome. Anybody else have ideas?
 
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ignore her a little bit

that'll make her want to chase you
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maybe she was studying female gynecology with her friends. I would think nothing of who she studies with - if you want a study buddy you can go with the ugly chicks.

Save your man time for in the bar with the hotties. You have a date set up so whats the problem?
 
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Take her on the date and act like nothing happened. If she's going on the date she's interested.
 
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