"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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women playing their games, opinions/advice needed

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I'm sending thsi out for some advice or opinions.
I met a girl a couple days back, played the ****y and funny thing well, didn't make myself available, wasn't clingy, an set things up for a drink at a local pub in the future. Today she acts like I don't even exist, and her and her friend tell my roomate to come over to their room to study, purposefully discluding me (I'm at the same table when they say this!). Oh, women and their games! I know they're trying to play headgames with me, and I know the only way I lose is if I let it affect me. I'm going to the pub anyway to have a blast. So here's what I need advice on from some DJs out there - what should my next move be? Should I act like nothin happened and show up at her room to take her out (provng I'm above her petty mind games)or should I dump her and move on? I'm at a college, so it ain't like the pickins are slim, but yet I'd lik this to turn out well for me, even if just a lesson learned. Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to be a Man and forget about the broad and go have fun. If you really really need an answer you need to simply ask what the hell is going on. Since she is a Woman she may be nervous to see if you are still intereted since you were acting uninterested. I mean think about you are suppose to be "the Man" and you are acting scared what do you think she is feeling. Be a Man and see if she still wants to go out and if she says no tell her off and go about your business.

Lesson learned.
STOP ACTING LIKE THESE CHICKS ARE YOUR MOTHER AND YOU NEED PERMISSION FROM THEM TO ACT.

MAN UP!
 
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If you say that pickings "aren't slim" then why fuss over this one chick? If a girl doesn't want to go do something fun with you, who cares, there are plenty of other people you can have fun with.
 
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good advice, gents. A new perspective is always welcome. Anybody else have ideas?
 
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ignore her a little bit

that'll make her want to chase you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe she was studying female gynecology with her friends. I would think nothing of who she studies with - if you want a study buddy you can go with the ugly chicks.

Save your man time for in the bar with the hotties. You have a date set up so whats the problem?
 
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Take her on the date and act like nothing happened. If she's going on the date she's interested.
 
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