"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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women playing their games, opinions/advice needed

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I'm sending thsi out for some advice or opinions.
I met a girl a couple days back, played the ****y and funny thing well, didn't make myself available, wasn't clingy, an set things up for a drink at a local pub in the future. Today she acts like I don't even exist, and her and her friend tell my roomate to come over to their room to study, purposefully discluding me (I'm at the same table when they say this!). Oh, women and their games! I know they're trying to play headgames with me, and I know the only way I lose is if I let it affect me. I'm going to the pub anyway to have a blast. So here's what I need advice on from some DJs out there - what should my next move be? Should I act like nothin happened and show up at her room to take her out (provng I'm above her petty mind games)or should I dump her and move on? I'm at a college, so it ain't like the pickins are slim, but yet I'd lik this to turn out well for me, even if just a lesson learned. Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You need to be a Man and forget about the broad and go have fun. If you really really need an answer you need to simply ask what the hell is going on. Since she is a Woman she may be nervous to see if you are still intereted since you were acting uninterested. I mean think about you are suppose to be "the Man" and you are acting scared what do you think she is feeling. Be a Man and see if she still wants to go out and if she says no tell her off and go about your business.

Lesson learned.
STOP ACTING LIKE THESE CHICKS ARE YOUR MOTHER AND YOU NEED PERMISSION FROM THEM TO ACT.

MAN UP!
 
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If you say that pickings "aren't slim" then why fuss over this one chick? If a girl doesn't want to go do something fun with you, who cares, there are plenty of other people you can have fun with.
 
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good advice, gents. A new perspective is always welcome. Anybody else have ideas?
 
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ignore her a little bit

that'll make her want to chase you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe she was studying female gynecology with her friends. I would think nothing of who she studies with - if you want a study buddy you can go with the ugly chicks.

Save your man time for in the bar with the hotties. You have a date set up so whats the problem?
 
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Take her on the date and act like nothing happened. If she's going on the date she's interested.
 
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