Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That link installed a bunch of malware CRAP on my computer. Doing a system restore now. Click at your own risk.thunder_god said:Damn this really motivated me to take action now. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montr...n-only-hours-proposal-causes-uproar-1.2981577
That was a legit Canadian news source. The link worked fine for me.the_stig said:That link installed a bunch of malware CRAP on my computer. Doing a system restore now. Click at your own risk.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just confirms what we suspected from the beginning that muslim colonizers were the impetus for women only gym hours.thunder_god said:Damn this really motivated me to take action now. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montr...n-only-hours-proposal-causes-uproar-1.2981577
Isn't it funny how we're fighting feminism and misandry here, and Muslims are pushing for women-only gym hours? Considering that Muslims are about as anti-feminism as they can get.thunder_god said:Damn this really motivated me to take action now. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montr...n-only-hours-proposal-causes-uproar-1.2981577