"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women only training hours at my school's gym

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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^You know what? Raise hell OP. If you can get the attention needed to change things, by all means ruffle some feathers.
 

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the_stig said:
That link installed a bunch of malware CRAP on my computer. Doing a system restore now. Click at your own risk.
That was a legit Canadian news source. The link worked fine for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thunder_god said:
Isn't it funny how we're fighting feminism and misandry here, and Muslims are pushing for women-only gym hours? Considering that Muslims are about as anti-feminism as they can get.

Anyway, that lady says "Personally, I prefer to work out in a womans-only environment". So half the students should be locked out of the gym because of her preferences? Let her go to a private gym if she wants to be coddled to. I would "prefer" that when I went out to a restaurant, they threw all the other customers out so I could dine in privacy. Are they going to do that?
 

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I just found this link while trying to look for the chairman of the department.
http://physical.utoronto.ca/Contact.aspx
Should I email the Director, Physical Activity and Equity?
and if that goes no where send the letter to the equity officer that espi posted?
I'll try to send out the email this weekend.
 
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