"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women only training hours at my school's gym

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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^You know what? Raise hell OP. If you can get the attention needed to change things, by all means ruffle some feathers.
 

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the_stig said:
That link installed a bunch of malware CRAP on my computer. Doing a system restore now. Click at your own risk.
That was a legit Canadian news source. The link worked fine for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thunder_god said:
Isn't it funny how we're fighting feminism and misandry here, and Muslims are pushing for women-only gym hours? Considering that Muslims are about as anti-feminism as they can get.

Anyway, that lady says "Personally, I prefer to work out in a womans-only environment". So half the students should be locked out of the gym because of her preferences? Let her go to a private gym if she wants to be coddled to. I would "prefer" that when I went out to a restaurant, they threw all the other customers out so I could dine in privacy. Are they going to do that?
 

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I just found this link while trying to look for the chairman of the department.
http://physical.utoronto.ca/Contact.aspx
Should I email the Director, Physical Activity and Equity?
and if that goes no where send the letter to the equity officer that espi posted?
I'll try to send out the email this weekend.
 
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