"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women never take care of me financially, and its bothering me...

Knight of Roses

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Something's been on my mind lately and its bothering me, so thought I'd bring it up to yall for some thoughts.

I got money. Not endless pits of FU money, but I live comfortably. I can afford nice experiences and things, and I spend money liberally as I like to have a good time: Drinks, food, events, etc... I usually always pay for the girl I'm with, and sometimes if Im in a group of guys, I'll pay for the men too. Whatever, its never been a big deal.

However, from time to time I keep hearing stories about men who are financially supported by their women. Dudes who are treated to an expensive vacation by their girlfriend, or some guy who get a new set of teeth by his girl, etc... Thing is, I've never had something of that sort. Sure, Ive been out with women who've offered to share the tab or whatever, but nothing extravagant.

Im curious, is this something I should be bothered by? Is it a rite of passage in the "game" when you get to the level where the girls are taking care of you? Idk, thought Id see what yall opinions were on this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alvafe

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yeah treated, chances are they will pay for the travel spences anyway, get this in your head dud woman will never spend on you without a return, and she will only do so after so long time, and that is only if she feels like doing something nice for you, most woman today don't have money to even take care of thenselfs even less kids and other men
 

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However, from time to time I keep hearing stories about men who are financially supported by their women. Dudes who are treated to an expensive vacation by their girlfriend, or some guy who get a new set of teeth by his girl, etc... Thing is, I've never had something of that sort. Sure, Ive been out with women who've offered to share the tab or whatever, but nothing extravagant.
You have to attract women who have money, without using your money.

You're going to be relying on game and looks, certain types of status can help as well.

On top of that she's going to have to be a decent person and have high interest. So she probably won't be a beauty queen.
 

bat soup

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Something's been on my mind lately and its bothering me, so thought I'd bring it up to yall for some thoughts.

I got money. Not endless pits of FU money, but I live comfortably. I can afford nice experiences and things, and I spend money liberally as I like to have a good time: Drinks, food, events, etc... I usually always pay for the girl I'm with, and sometimes if Im in a group of guys, I'll pay for the men too. Whatever, its never been a big deal.

However, from time to time I keep hearing stories about men who are financially supported by their women. Dudes who are treated to an expensive vacation by their girlfriend, or some guy who get a new set of teeth by his girl, etc... Thing is, I've never had something of that sort. Sure, Ive been out with women who've offered to share the tab or whatever, but nothing extravagant.

Im curious, is this something I should be bothered by? Is it a rite of passage in the "game" when you get to the level where the girls are taking care of you? Idk, thought Id see what yall opinions were on this.
I've also heard the stories. About women financially supporting themselves and even sometimes paying for men. About women being equal.

I think it's probably just a myth.
 

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Im curious, is this something I should be bothered by? Is it a rite of passage in the "game" when you get to the level where the girls are taking care of you? Idk, thought Id see what yall opinions were on this.
This is not at all bothersome. It's not reality. Women don't financially simp for men.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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