Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That video is spot on IMO.good video by CoachGregAdams on what women need to do
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next time when a girl asks what you think of her tell her you like her tits and ass and her looks. See how that goes for you.What planet do you hail from?
That's not when she asks you what you think of her or if she asks if you like her and what you like about her.Why just yesterday after talking to a young woman I comment on how she was looking good, right after I looked her up and down. She texted me an hour or so ago.
It’s no wonder you are so generic. You dry up pu$$ys. You’re a cold fish.
Compliments and sexual overtures are not necessarily bad or good. Depends on who is using them and when. I’m there to fuk her. Not to make her my new LTR.
I really, really wish more men would lift heavy weights.In all fairness, men aren't doing much better in the fitness department.
Society in general has too much fat. Calories are too easy to get
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree with you but in addition to that, I'm going to add that many more Europeans walk and take public transit compared to the US and they also eat more foods that aren't as processed.If you go to eastern europe you see that woman there acutally still care about how they present themselves and there are nowhere near so much fat unkempt women.
Eating habits of course play a lot into this. When people become to lazy to prepare their own food and rely on industrial meals, things start to go south.I agree with you but in addition to that, I'm going to add that many more Europeans walk and take public transit compared to the US and they also eat more foods that aren't as processed.
I believe just the amount of processed foods we have and consume adds to the obesity. If most American's just ate more natural foods(aka paleo style), they would lose some weight just doing that. Obviously greedy corporations with slick marketing campaigns along with Americans that don't want to cook these days out of inconvenience or "busy" lifestyle have them eating out mostly or consuming these processed foods.
For example, The Cheesecake Factory restaurant franchise was at the top of US restaurant chains to have the most amount of sodium in their meals. Of course more sodium makes you more thirsty, which has you drinking a lot of Soda or other high calorie drinks in those places along with that high sodium intake.
Also from a generational aging process, I believe that GMO foods along with processed foods have an effect on how you age if you consume a lot of it.
It tells you a lot about ones discipline. There are a lot of Girls and guys too who simply dont care about themselfs to the point that they get extremely overweight. Its very sad. I know how many saturdays nights or sundays lazy downs i skiped by going to the gym instead and also when i look good ofcourse im going to attract fit and good looking Girls.good video by CoachGregAdams on what women need to do
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Unfortunately they have no need to. Go on any social media account and you will see simps all over feeding them validation.good video by CoachGregAdams on what women need to do
This thread jumpstarted my weightloss again.Unfortunately they have no need to. Go on any social media account and you will see simps all over feeding them validation.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.