You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That video is spot on IMO.good video by CoachGregAdams on what women need to do
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next time when a girl asks what you think of her tell her you like her tits and ass and her looks. See how that goes for you.What planet do you hail from?
That's not when she asks you what you think of her or if she asks if you like her and what you like about her.Why just yesterday after talking to a young woman I comment on how she was looking good, right after I looked her up and down. She texted me an hour or so ago.
It’s no wonder you are so generic. You dry up pu$$ys. You’re a cold fish.
Compliments and sexual overtures are not necessarily bad or good. Depends on who is using them and when. I’m there to fuk her. Not to make her my new LTR.
I really, really wish more men would lift heavy weights.In all fairness, men aren't doing much better in the fitness department.
Society in general has too much fat. Calories are too easy to get
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I agree with you but in addition to that, I'm going to add that many more Europeans walk and take public transit compared to the US and they also eat more foods that aren't as processed.If you go to eastern europe you see that woman there acutally still care about how they present themselves and there are nowhere near so much fat unkempt women.
Eating habits of course play a lot into this. When people become to lazy to prepare their own food and rely on industrial meals, things start to go south.I agree with you but in addition to that, I'm going to add that many more Europeans walk and take public transit compared to the US and they also eat more foods that aren't as processed.
I believe just the amount of processed foods we have and consume adds to the obesity. If most American's just ate more natural foods(aka paleo style), they would lose some weight just doing that. Obviously greedy corporations with slick marketing campaigns along with Americans that don't want to cook these days out of inconvenience or "busy" lifestyle have them eating out mostly or consuming these processed foods.
For example, The Cheesecake Factory restaurant franchise was at the top of US restaurant chains to have the most amount of sodium in their meals. Of course more sodium makes you more thirsty, which has you drinking a lot of Soda or other high calorie drinks in those places along with that high sodium intake.
Also from a generational aging process, I believe that GMO foods along with processed foods have an effect on how you age if you consume a lot of it.
It tells you a lot about ones discipline. There are a lot of Girls and guys too who simply dont care about themselfs to the point that they get extremely overweight. Its very sad. I know how many saturdays nights or sundays lazy downs i skiped by going to the gym instead and also when i look good ofcourse im going to attract fit and good looking Girls.good video by CoachGregAdams on what women need to do
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Unfortunately they have no need to. Go on any social media account and you will see simps all over feeding them validation.good video by CoachGregAdams on what women need to do
This thread jumpstarted my weightloss again.Unfortunately they have no need to. Go on any social media account and you will see simps all over feeding them validation.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.