"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women like to be handled

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I go to a hooters not so far away from my place, usually talk to the girls that work there. Had been trying to get at one for a while. Every time i would see her I would basically give her commands and act like an ******* around her and she’d smile. Today I finally asked for her number and she gave it out.


Women enjoy being handled, they like being bossed around. They like someone to stand up to them, because they are use to being placed on a pedestal!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice post, but a waitress at a food establishment is not the right way to establish a statement like that. They are paid to do what their customers want no matter how, within preset management limits, the customer acts.
Try it in a normal setting and get back to us.
 

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Nice post, but a waitress at a food establishment is not the right way to establish a statement like that. They are paid to do what their customers want no matter how, within preset management limits, the customer acts.
Try it in a normal setting and get back to us.
You can fvck out of there if your a big guy on campus.
 

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I go to a hooters not so far away from my place, usually talk to the girls that work there. Had been trying to get at one for a while. Every time i would see her I would basically give her commands and act like an ******* around her and she’d smile. Today I finally asked for her number and she gave it out.


Women enjoy being handled, they like being bossed around. They like someone to stand up to them, because they are use to being placed on a pedestal!!!
Post follow-ups of what happens when you try to contact her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I go to a hooters not so far away from my place, usually talk to the girls that work there. Had been trying to get at one for a while. Every time i would see her I would basically give her commands and act like an ******* around her and she’d smile. Today I finally asked for her number and she gave it out.


Women enjoy being handled, they like being bossed around. They like someone to stand up to them, because they are use to being placed on a pedestal!!!
The basic women like that. If they are intelligent, or worthwhile, no way.
 

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Wow. You got it narrowed to spectrums. So if you dont boss basic around she will think you have no balls?
More basic women will like to be bossed around or wish to be, because they don’t like to think for themselves. I know the type he is talking about in the OP, they are fun for the roster, but definetly not for building something with.
 

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Nice post, but a waitress at a food establishment is not the right way to establish a statement like that. They are paid to do what their customers want no matter how, within preset management limits, the customer acts.
Try it in a normal setting and get back to us.
I do it everywhere I go and I get the same reaction.
 

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More basic women will like to be bossed around or wish to be, because they don’t like to think for themselves. I know the type he is talking about in the OP, they are fun for the roster, but definetly not for building something with.
It’s not that they can’t think for themselves, but it’s more that they’ve been around the dating/fuxing life longer and are experienced. Much different than going after a chick that’s worthwile
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Congrats man. I've had my fair share of Hooters waitresses. Great times!
 

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Really? For free? Tell the stories.
Was a regular at one of them. Me and my biker buddies would go very often. Took them for thrill rides after their shifts. Banged about 4 of them. Dated 5-6 over the course of a year. Not much else. They're humans just like you and I.
 

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Really? For free? Tell the stories.
Oh and for awhile I was a server/bartender at a restaurant nearby. I'd go frequently after my shift and got the hook up on free beers. I'd return the favor when they came to visit me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Was a regular at one of them. Me and my biker buddies would go very often. Took them for thrill rides after their shifts. Banged about 4 of them. Dated 5-6 over the course of a year. Not much else. They're humans just like you and I.
Yea but they have so many guys swarming around them all the time. I didn't know they ever fvcked customers. Although I met 1 once that married a guy she met while working and had 2 kids with him.
 

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Yeah won't work with a high class gal. Hooters gal though? She works at hooters, 'nuff said.
 

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I go to a hooters not so far away from my place, usually talk to the girls that work there. Had been trying to get at one for a while. Every time i would see her I would basically give her commands and act like an ******* around her and she’d smile. Today I finally asked for her number and she gave it out.

Women enjoy being handled, they like being bossed around. They like someone to stand up to them, because they are use to being placed on a pedestal!!!
Or she gave a fake number because she wanted you to stop hassling her.
 
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