Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women get rich by marriage

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another thing is women do not work hard. Fact of life. A succesful woman has the long hair, long nails, high heels, tight skirt, etc. It all says "look at me." "I have money without working."
 

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Another thing is women do not work hard. Fact of life. A succesful woman has the long hair, long nails, high heels, tight skirt, etc. It all says "look at me." "I have money without working."
i disagree on this some work hard but probably not as hard as some men.
 

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Another thing is women do not work hard. Fact of life. A succesful woman has the long hair, long nails, high heels, tight skirt, etc. It all says "look at me." "I have money without working."
Not all women bro. There are some driven inspired women. While they have an equivalent to a male con man she traps a rich guy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolutely. I agree.

I also think the majority of women still desire to have and nurture a family, and a happy and healthy one at that. I think once a certain comfortable financial threshold is met, with her income and/or together with her partner's, a woman often prefers to then turn her focus away from her making more money, to fulfilling that deeper desire, of having and nurturing a family.

I think if one were to ask young women if they would prefer to spend their twenties and thirties working really f'ing hard, day after day, so they can earn 845K per year, at some point, or if instead would they would prefer to have a happy and healthy family, but with less income. I think most young women would choose to focus on a having and nurturing a family over working for the 1% income level. I think most men if they had to choose, would also choose living comfortably and having a happy and healthy family. I think the fact that it is only 1% that actually makes 845K speaks to that priority and preference, as well.
I agree,i think its mostly a social trend that make them believe that this is the way to go.


Most men are not intimidated by successful women as they like to believe. they dont like the one that are entitle because of it.
 

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I think if one were to ask young women if they would prefer to spend their twenties and thirties working really f'ing hard, day after day, so they can earn 845K per year, at some point, or if instead would they would prefer to have a happy and healthy family, but with less income. I think most young women would choose to focus on a having and nurturing a family over working for the 1% income level.
Then maybe they should start acting like that then. Instead of slvtting it up and riding the carousel. I can understand sowing some wild oats before you settle down, but engaging in that type of behavior long term and chasing guys who will not commit is not really conducive to the ultimate goal.

A lot of the guys here would probably be willing to commit, but find the current crop of women unreliable. Mind you, I realize a lot of today's men have their shortcomings as well. But this is a men's forum, so...
 

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Please know, I intended no disrespect, on any level. If any disrespect came across, in what I shared, I apologize.
I didn't think there was any disrespect at all, no need to apologize. Just making conversation here.
 

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@redskinsfan92 What else, specifically, do you think should have been stated/explained that wasn't?
The fact that men overwhelmingly fill the most difficult roles and work more hours. Don't get me wrong. I'm not some MRA crying about it. Just saying that is reality. Throughout history men have been the ones to build cities and roads. Women throughout history have birthed and nurtured those men when they were young. It is the way of our species.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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