"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women from different parts of the world

Climax

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I was just wondering....

To all you guys out there that have been in relationships with women from different parst of the world (Different nationalities)... have you found there to be any differences by the way the women act or their behavior/attitude etc? Actually, ANY differences at all? even in bed?:rolleyes:

Ok, well, feel free to comment and give in your experiances ;)

Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DeathDealer

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Why? So you can have your choice of what nationality you think is the easiest or most compatible with your "style." Since most of the girls you'll be hooking up will be local, how about doing some investigation around your area.
 

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DeathDealer: please keep your id!otic comments to yourself.

If you have nothing constructive or helpfull to say, then rather keep it to yourself.

And a hint... Stop being so judgemental of people. *sigh*
 

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Yes. I have dated Chinese, SIngaporean and of course Eastern European girls. OK this is the deal: when you C&F, make sure you don't step on any cultural taboo. Believe me, this is a can of worms you don't want to open! I have committed that mistake many many times, but each time they liked me enough to forgive me. Of course, when it comes to relationship, both cultural background and individual's character play a part in deciding what is and is not acceptable to them. You really have to keep your eyes and ears open. For e.g. my ex Eastern European girlfriend hated C&F; she prefered a more conventional sense of humor. But bear in mind, none of us in this planet can ever date enough girls of one nationality to be statistically rigorous to tell you for sure the traits they observe pertain to that group. Get what I mean. What I can say is: show respect, be gentlemenly, be a challenge, be humorous, be sensitive, have a sense of pride...i.e. the usual DJ stuff you know. And you should be OK :)
 

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hmm... interesting...

water: thanx for the input, appreciated.:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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