"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women from different parts of the world

Climax

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I was just wondering....

To all you guys out there that have been in relationships with women from different parst of the world (Different nationalities)... have you found there to be any differences by the way the women act or their behavior/attitude etc? Actually, ANY differences at all? even in bed?:rolleyes:

Ok, well, feel free to comment and give in your experiances ;)

Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DeathDealer

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Why? So you can have your choice of what nationality you think is the easiest or most compatible with your "style." Since most of the girls you'll be hooking up will be local, how about doing some investigation around your area.
 

Climax

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DeathDealer: please keep your id!otic comments to yourself.

If you have nothing constructive or helpfull to say, then rather keep it to yourself.

And a hint... Stop being so judgemental of people. *sigh*
 

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Yes. I have dated Chinese, SIngaporean and of course Eastern European girls. OK this is the deal: when you C&F, make sure you don't step on any cultural taboo. Believe me, this is a can of worms you don't want to open! I have committed that mistake many many times, but each time they liked me enough to forgive me. Of course, when it comes to relationship, both cultural background and individual's character play a part in deciding what is and is not acceptable to them. You really have to keep your eyes and ears open. For e.g. my ex Eastern European girlfriend hated C&F; she prefered a more conventional sense of humor. But bear in mind, none of us in this planet can ever date enough girls of one nationality to be statistically rigorous to tell you for sure the traits they observe pertain to that group. Get what I mean. What I can say is: show respect, be gentlemenly, be a challenge, be humorous, be sensitive, have a sense of pride...i.e. the usual DJ stuff you know. And you should be OK :)
 

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hmm... interesting...

water: thanx for the input, appreciated.:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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