You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And she doesn't call or text you! No stupid chit chat for you to ask her out. Nothing! She doesn't have to ask you out but she can call and talk about ****. That is a hint! Wtf is she doing now? She may not even have some1 at all.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Right now we on our 7 off days so I have no clue what she doing and nope she hasnt called or text me since that time she called me on my ext.
She already reached out her way. Whether it is validation or not. You should know when you can ask her. She thinks like a woman and a woman thinks like a bunch of women.
When you grabbed her arm and didn't kiss her, you became clingy. That is exactly what happenes if you take a woman to a hotel room and instead of fvcking her, you start to watch baseball and drink beer. She gets naked and you don't notice her.
Well then maybe I should just take the loss if she doesnt reach out again
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It is interesting what she told you.... Her extension didn't change. That dont mean her phone number did not change, which you used to ask her out.
Don't take a loss.just wait some time to see if she makes a move and if she doesn't then you move. You move even if you risk to be slapped! Just make an example!e
She said her personal phone number didnt change. She called me on my ext to tell me her personal phone number didnt change.
Yes I still greet and talk to her but only about job related things. Technically I just stop talking to her about meeting up since she cancelled twice on me
Well we will see what she does from now
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Did you knew her schedule the first and second time you ask her out? Did she tell you? How about heading out after work for. Drink or movie?
Yea we have the same schedule 7 on 7 off. I've asked her after work at that time how bout a drink after work
I mean her schedule after work. You know........
You know her DOB?
Oh I dont know her schedule after work besides she spends a lot of time with her 12 year old son
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not quite but im 32 shes 43
What is your DOB?
8/6/87
I will try to PM you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.