"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women find Evil Men Erotic and Arousing (Part 2)

paranoidkj

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PlayHer Man said:
LISTEN.. I don't believe being "alpha" means going out and f*cking people over just for kicks. It doesn't mean being a criminal. It doesn't mean being abusive and mean.

What does it mean? It means ALWAYS doing what's best for you. Selfish jerks are not out to destroy women, society or anyone else. They are just willing to run over anyone who gets in the way of what they want. This is something betas are NOT willing to do.

With women.. you can be kind and even "nice" as long as the woman is f*cking you and submitting to you like she should. Once she starts with the feminism, mind games, b!tchy attitude or manipulation.. that's when you either NEXT her or treat her like a total skank.

I don't think its all that complex.

you are g@y as fvck. You despise vag1na and want dj dik meat
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forgetting about the paranoidkj phaggot above, I don't why you other guys get so pissed at playherman for basically spouting a lot of truth with the fact there are a good percentage of women who are turned the phuck on by badass fellas, but they end up marrying beta providers.
Why get so angry when it's the truth that the likes of Ted Bundy got sackfulls of letters saying "can I come to prison and phuck you".
But hey, NOWALT! Well true, there are degrees. But the basis of the theory is sound.
 

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GayerMan=Zunder]Forgetting about the paranoidkj phaggot above, I don't why you other guys get so pissed at playherman for basically spouting a lot of truth with the fact there are a good percentage of women who are turned the phuck on by badass fellas, but they end up marrying beta providers.
Why get so angry when it's the truth that the likes of Ted Bundy got sackfulls of letters saying "can I come to prison and phuck you".
But hey, NOWALT! Well true, there are degrees. But the basis of the theory is sound.[/QUOTE]

Sound if you keep hearing alarm bells in your diseased peanut brains.

Perhaps the thread shouldve been titled: GayerMan and Funderboy find evil men exotic and arousing.

I'll let you two twinks get back to rubbing tummy sticks over the thread. See ya fun boys!
 

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PlayHer Man speaks the truth. He may say it in a harsh fashion, but since far too many men don't seem to get it, there is clearly a need for a strong voice of reason. His words, and the lesson in them, are much less harsh than the reality men face everyday in the real world. Try divorce court, try custody battles, try life-long alimony payments to a cheating former spouse and you'll see how gentle these harsh words now seem.

Since the Red Pill - Blue Pill analogy has become so well accepted, and with the resistance to PlayHer Man's message, it seems another quote from The Matrix is appropriate in this debate:

"You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it."

If you want kids and a family one day, this lesson is even more important for you. Go into the situation with knowledge and you stand a far better chance of surviving. Go in with ignorance and you face a bleak future.

It appears that PlayHer Man has been banned, and personally I think this is a loss to the community. The messenger has been shot, but at least those still fighting to protect The Matrix will no longer get their feelings hurt by a stranger on the internet.
 

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MikeOck It appears that PlayHer Man has been banned said:
The Matrix[/I] will no longer get their feelings hurt by a stranger on the internet.
has he???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you know the funny part? a women said this "women prefer evil mens" and even mention women seeks evil, only reason she was not shot was because it was a women.

also researches tell us women find men with a more angry face atratative tehn a smiling one, when a men find a smiling women more atrative then a angry one
 

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Alvafe said:
also researches tell us women find men with a more angry face atratative tehn a smiling one, when a men find a smiling women more atrative then a angry one
I thought that was a very interesting study, but this topic needs more research IMO. As far as I know there was only one study, and it reached its conclusions by showing still pictures of men to women. Even I thought some of the smiling male faces were rather dweebish looking. Add in movement, as in real life, or even film, and I wonder if that would make a difference?

That study also found that "ashamed" expressions were more attractive than smiling faces to women, but I don't see anyone going around telling guys to look ashamed. Wouldn't that be beta?

Also, there is such a thing as comfort aside from attraction. A man doing cold pickup might have more success putting girls at ease with a smile than if they approached looking angry. Like I said, I think more research on this is needed before drawing any firm conclusions.
 

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MikeOck said:
PlayHer Man speaks the truth. He may say it in a harsh fashion, but since far too many men don't seem to get it, there is clearly a need for a strong voice of reason. His words, and the lesson in them, are much less harsh than the reality men face everyday in the real world. Try divorce court, try custody battles, try life-long alimony payments to a cheating former spouse and you'll see how gentle these harsh words now seem.

Since the Red Pill - Blue Pill analogy has become so well accepted, and with the resistance to PlayHer Man's message, it seems another quote from The Matrix is appropriate in this debate:

"You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it."

If you want kids and a family one day, this lesson is even more important for you. Go into the situation with knowledge and you stand a far better chance of surviving. Go in with ignorance and you face a bleak future.

It appears that PlayHer Man has been banned, and personally I think this is a loss to the community. The messenger has been shot, but at least those still fighting to protect The Matrix will no longer get their feelings hurt by a stranger on the internet.
Agree. :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who the hell cares what he did? People get a life seriously. You think I have never been banned before? What you do is go outside for a couple months and come back. They forgive you. When you get banned it's sosuave telling you to get a damned life and come back with a better attitude.
 

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Hold up is he still banned.Mods waaaait a minute , this like punishing schoolboys getting into a scrap.He was the one being insulted by a poster. He is the harshest prick no doubt. If I was in combat i would want him to be the sgt-major and go in . The form he uses is stark terms so some of us get an understanding. Lift that ban its not justified.
 

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Alvafe said:
you know the funny part? a women said this "women prefer evil mens" and even mention women seeks evil, only reason she was not shot was because it was a women.

also researches tell us women find men with a more angry face atratative tehn a smiling one, when a men find a smiling women more atrative then a angry one
Where do you find this stuff? Ever see a babe magnet in action? Lots of smiling going on.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Truth

I used to feel a twinge of guilt at times, but I couldn't argue with the results. It's become a game of sorts, where I try to see how far I can push the envelope and it never ceases to be entertaining because every waking moment of every day we're told we should behave in the complete opposite way.

It's a game, man. Once I realized that I literally could fvck any girl I wanted if I acted like I didn't care, It became a huge game. I can't believe some of the sht I've gotten away with.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
This is why you should spin plates until you die. You are DOOMED if you follow the traditional beta male, wife and kids, Disney story crap. You will be exploited and driven into the ground like a rental car at best. Enslaved at worst. :down:
Only a real beta would exploit marriage not having the credentials to attain that objective.
 

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Dear Play Her the Man,
So some weird Women find these Animals arousing,most certainly don't they feel the same way about them as we do!...Why does one Swallow make a Summer.
 

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Poon King said:
Historically marriage was designed to keep women loyal. Not men.
Women are loyal to their alpha boyfriends and husbands. Betas like the author who don't have the credentials to keep a woman long term needs to spin plates for a lifetime. Loyalty is a major characteristic of the alpha male.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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