Women don’t care about men, they care about the man’s situation

[BeExcellent]

@BeExcellent
Doesn't even realize by saying IF...IF he is Alpha enough THEN he will get my attention. <----------- TRANSACTION...= GOODS and services..101 capitalism for you haters out there.
But you cucks keep lapping up the feminine imperative dating advice when its SO clear our beloved SS girls should focus on COOKING FOOD or rearing up GRANDCHILDREN.
but we all know gentlemen the GLITZ of being a standout is to much for their hamster jezzzbel sexual mind...
Ehhh @BeExcellent ???
Because obviously being TRANSACTIONAL is above you right? Your Highness??

Having standards is not the same thing as having a transactional relationship String Bean. You as a married man surely understand this. Should a man expect unconditional love? No. If a man brutalizes a woman should she still stay on and love him despite his abuse? Nope. Many women do however and in so doing lose their self respect AND their partner’s self respect.

Women can and do love deeply. But a great woman is a whole individual and comes to a relationship with both standards and self respect. We all have individual preferences that drive the alchemy of attraction.

That is different than women who evaluate based on what they can GAIN vis a vis their looks from a man they might not like or desire.

I cannot be bought in the sense that I will not sacrifice attraction/desire for stuff. Money, status etc, alone? Nope. Desire first. Otherwise what’s the point? I’m not going to get sexual with a man I don’t find sexy. Period. I don’t care who he is or what he has in the way of stuff.

But many women will make that trade off. I won’t, but many will.

If String Bean cannot see the distinction then he’s merely over simplifying something that honestly is pretty obvious.

I’d like to be with someone I enjoy so well that we can hang out, be lovers and enjoy each other’s company without need of stuff. But I’m not going to get with a loser either. I have standards. That’s not the same as being transactional in the sense OP is talking about.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

My man lucianoM said there's definitely sweet and trustworthy women still out there. I believe him. But he said if they are in a party girl phase ( ho ) all bets are off.

 

[Lookatu]

There in lays what kind of women your dealing with...or...her position in her life is at.
Adjust accordingly. A DJ knows these things

I think you may have misunderstood me. I'm of the belief that ALL women need some value out of a man to stay with them. I just listed only some examples and it will be different depending on the individual's women's needs and priorities. Love in itself isn't enough for women, where as there is a lot of guys out there where if a woman loves them, that's all they need to stay with them.