"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women cry four times as much as men.

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I believe this to be true. I have formed a connection for making a girl cry because I rejected her.

However, I cry a lot and I'm a grown man. I work as a mechanic and was changing a tie rod and I didn't install it correctly and the customer flipped out, started yelling at me.
I went into the bathroom and started to cry. When I came out my other male coworkers looked at me with disgust.

The next day I was fired.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chev.Chelios

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Well yeah, tie rod failure = car spins out of control into trees, blows up and his family gets roasted alive.

Id choke you if you fcked up a job like that on my rig
 

cola

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if a screaming customer makes you cry what would you do if you had a family to feed, bills were due & you just lost your job?
Run to the bathroom and cry?
If that was your answer, the look your co-worker gave you would be nothing compared to the look your woman would give you.
Toughen the f#ck up. Life can be hard sometimes and men get very little sympathy.

Also, as a mechanic there are some things you can half a** and get away with..
A tie rod job is not one... Really want to focus 100% on that one as someone's life could be in your hands.

But don't dwell on it. You goofed up and deserved to get fired.
Now take 1 day to mourn and make finding a job your new number 1 priority.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You made your bed, now sleep in it. You made a bed of spikes and laid in it face down.

Of course a customer would get mad if the problem still existed. There could be multiple children coming along.

Mechanics can be heroes. Not just for saving one life, but potentially thousands. Car accidents due to failing parts are no laughing matter.

Stop crying and I hope you learned a valuable lesson. Most other guys on this post would fire your ass too for this. I would too.

Learn, grow, move on.

Case closed.
 

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Yup.

I went on a first date with a chick on Monday and she started crying in the middle of it (lol). She told me about how her dad had colon cancer. I could tell she really wanted to talk about it.

I used it to my advantage by really putting the moves on her. She was all over me in my car after that. If women are emotional, you should use that to your advantage.
 

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Yup.

I went on a first date with a chick on Monday and she started crying in the middle of it (lol). She told me about how her dad had colon cancer. I could tell she really wanted to talk about it.

I used it to my advantage by really putting the moves on her. She was all over me in my car after that. If women are emotional, you should use that to your advantage.
Wtf!? You used her dad's cancer to get her, that just doesn't sound good to me. If a woman broke down crying halfway through a first date because her father had cancer, then I'd just comfort her and advise her to put dating on hold.
 

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I believe this to be true. I have formed a connection for making a girl cry because I rejected her.

However, I cry a lot and I'm a grown man. I work as a mechanic and was changing a tie rod and I didn't install it correctly and the customer flipped out, started yelling at me.
I went into the bathroom and started to cry. When I came out my other male coworkers looked at me with disgust.

The next day I was fired.
+1 for honesty. Nothing wrong with crying. Although you need to work on yourself so you handle these types of situations better in the future and realize that most people, and by most I mean basically everyone except your mom and dad and if your lucky a close guy friend or two, will react poorly to you acting weakly. It is what it is.
 

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I work as a mechanic and was changing a tie rod and I didn't install it correctly and the customer flipped out, started yelling at me.
I went into the bathroom and started to cry. When I came out my other male coworkers looked at me with disgust.

The next day I was fired.
LMAO
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dudes should probably cry more.

But not in front of other dudes.

I went on a first date with a chick on Monday and she started crying in the middle of it (lol). She told me about how her dad had colon cancer. I could tell she really wanted to talk about it.

I used it to my advantage by really putting the moves on her. She was all over me in my car after that. If women are emotional, you should use that to your advantage.
High five.
 

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I believe this to be true. I have formed a connection for making a girl cry because I rejected her.

However, I cry a lot and I'm a grown man. I work as a mechanic and was changing a tie rod and I didn't install it correctly and the customer flipped out, started yelling at me.
I went into the bathroom and started to cry. When I came out my other male coworkers looked at me with disgust.

The next day I was fired.
Not these days with all the feminine, no testosterone having males out there...THEY are the ones doing the crying and the women play the role of the men half the time
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yup.

I went on a first date with a chick on Monday and she started crying in the middle of it (lol). She told me about how her dad had colon cancer. I could tell she really wanted to talk about it.

I used it to my advantage by really putting the moves on her. She was all over me in my car after that. If women are emotional, you should use that to your advantage.
You're right. Vulnerable pvssy is nice lol
 

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Not these days with all the feminine, no testosterone having males out there...THEY are the ones doing the crying and the women play the role of the men half the time
This is so true. 90% of the "men" under 30 I see today are wimpy, soft, mush-muscled fems. They have little drive and assertiveness. They just seem go F'ing meek and scared. I think they were way too coddled and sheltered as children. Parents are to blame. Yet, I see some with hot women. My theory is that if that's all most young women have to choose from today, they'll go with it. You don't miss (DJ/Alpha) what you never had.
 
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