"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women can be helpful with male fashion tips?

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With the talk of self-improvement with women, I've always been told that when it comes to dressing to attract women, no one's more better than the women themselves.

I've even had men tell me to have a female friend go clothing shopping with you and she'll pick the best attire that can attract women.

True or false or it is a matter of opinion? but I have found the most popular opinion was that of women doing the clothing picking for the men.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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darktriadism

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OP demonstrates the world is not ready to be unplugged even after reading and understanding the redpill.
 

darktriadism

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In my opinion, a female friend is either your plate or someone who's not into you and just chill.
Who keeps genuine female friends? And would she increase her dread by helping you get clothes which would get you other women?
That's like asking a female to help you get a girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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In my experience women gave me great suggestions and got me compliments from other women about what I got.
 

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A man considers a woman's opinions and suggestions, but he makes his own decision. She does not shop for you. She does not pick your clothes.

Go shopping alone, and ask women for their opinion, it's great to open a set!
 

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I've had different results with this.

1.) The chick was very helpful and accurate in their style when shopping with me. Just be sure the chick is stylish herself (and your type) as she will pick things out that she looks for in a man's wardrobe.

2.) I've also had a plate go with me and she was trying to turn me into her own person playboy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlphaNate

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It depends on a girl. Some have good taste and can think image, most don't and will advice you to dress like their favorite actor or their ex, even if that is completely not your style.
This is correct.

I know what I look good in, so I've played around with this a bit to see if girls will go along with it or try to change it. Results vary too much to say "women are good at picking out clothes for you" or "women are bad at picking out clothes for you."
 

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The only time I enjoyed was they were in retail and brought me "gifts". Who doesn't like free clothes. Her taste was okay, the plus was it being expensive stuff I normally wouldn't buy.

If I had to throw a number out its probably 50-60% meh if I liked what they bought me.
 

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I wear whatever I want. When I was in shape, I was out on a stroll while wearing boots, black BDUs, and a black beater. Two women were outside, loading boxes. I said, " Hello ladies, how are you doing." The one had her back to me, but the other one started to say, "Fine...," looked up, and then said, ""How are YOU doing?" I was feeling rather confident that day.

With that said, I have asked female store asociates how I look if I can't make a decision.
 
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