"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women can be helpful with male fashion tips?

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With the talk of self-improvement with women, I've always been told that when it comes to dressing to attract women, no one's more better than the women themselves.

I've even had men tell me to have a female friend go clothing shopping with you and she'll pick the best attire that can attract women.

True or false or it is a matter of opinion? but I have found the most popular opinion was that of women doing the clothing picking for the men.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OP demonstrates the world is not ready to be unplugged even after reading and understanding the redpill.
 

darktriadism

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In my opinion, a female friend is either your plate or someone who's not into you and just chill.
Who keeps genuine female friends? And would she increase her dread by helping you get clothes which would get you other women?
That's like asking a female to help you get a girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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In my experience women gave me great suggestions and got me compliments from other women about what I got.
 

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A man considers a woman's opinions and suggestions, but he makes his own decision. She does not shop for you. She does not pick your clothes.

Go shopping alone, and ask women for their opinion, it's great to open a set!
 

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I've had different results with this.

1.) The chick was very helpful and accurate in their style when shopping with me. Just be sure the chick is stylish herself (and your type) as she will pick things out that she looks for in a man's wardrobe.

2.) I've also had a plate go with me and she was trying to turn me into her own person playboy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It depends on a girl. Some have good taste and can think image, most don't and will advice you to dress like their favorite actor or their ex, even if that is completely not your style.
This is correct.

I know what I look good in, so I've played around with this a bit to see if girls will go along with it or try to change it. Results vary too much to say "women are good at picking out clothes for you" or "women are bad at picking out clothes for you."
 

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The only time I enjoyed was they were in retail and brought me "gifts". Who doesn't like free clothes. Her taste was okay, the plus was it being expensive stuff I normally wouldn't buy.

If I had to throw a number out its probably 50-60% meh if I liked what they bought me.
 

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I wear whatever I want. When I was in shape, I was out on a stroll while wearing boots, black BDUs, and a black beater. Two women were outside, loading boxes. I said, " Hello ladies, how are you doing." The one had her back to me, but the other one started to say, "Fine...," looked up, and then said, ""How are YOU doing?" I was feeling rather confident that day.

With that said, I have asked female store asociates how I look if I can't make a decision.
 
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