"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Had a recent discussion with a woman and her logic had me shaking my head in disbelief.

She seems to have more issues than Reader’s Digest and her logical solution is to getting acupuncture and sound therapy.
”I dunno, just picture all the stuck-ness getting all vibrated and agitated around in my body”. Her actual words.

Um, you are a covert narcissist, most likely BPD. An alcoholic with one DUI on the books, using marijuana as a cope for 25+ years, now in your 40s, gotten fat and lazy. Listening to a hippie makes sounds with a bowl is not going to erase a lifetime of bad discussions and relieve you of any accountability. Women live in this fantasy world where they think crap like this works. No, your fat a$$ needs to stop eating pizza and beer every night and go to the fvcking gym. It’s hard to take them seriously when they think acupuncture with stop them from being a drunk. Sign up for AA and get your sh!t sorted out. Sorry for the rant but these types ideas sound like red flags.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hippie women are problematic for sure.

OP isn't much better with his strongly implied paean to accepted consensuses and conflation of damaged women with a long standing, worldwide respected medical practice (acupuncture) that's been around thousands of years. The "stuck-ness" she was referring to is chi.

Learn to separate the messenger from the message. There is being excessively open-minded, and there is being excessively closed-minded as well.

p.s. reiki is also mentioned in the article and I can confirm for a fact that it works.
 
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Take away religion and strong male leaders from society and women run amok.

When women are left to their own devices it is a train wreck for all of society.
Pretty much. Women have no male guidance anymore. They're almost infantile.
 

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Don't write them off completely, a lot tend to be good at doing "the thing" lol. They tend to be pretty open minded so it makes sense. Back when I was living in San Diego I went out to the burning man event one year and I met this really hot new agey woman there. I didn't hook up with her at the event, but did afterwards because she also lived in Cali. I dated her for a bit. She was into crystals and chakra cleansing and all that, she would draw up her own charts. She was an interesting person in her own way but it was too much. Things would be going fine and then there would be a panic attack when venus entered into gemini, or some ****. She was the one that ended things. She said it was because our signs were incompatible and that the signs were pointing towards her needing to make a big change in her life. I pretended to be upset but was glad on the inside because I was about to dump her myself (lol).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Had a recent discussion with a woman and her logic had me shaking my head in disbelief.

She seems to have more issues than Reader’s Digest and her logical solution is to getting acupuncture and sound therapy.
”I dunno, just picture all the stuck-ness getting all vibrated and agitated around in my body”. Her actual words.

Um, you are a covert narcissist, most likely BPD. An alcoholic with one DUI on the books, using marijuana as a cope for 25+ years, now in your 40s, gotten fat and lazy.
Im glad I mostly avoid older women.
 
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