"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women are the biggest liars.. deceiving

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Would u guys say? Have you guys met any hardcore liars? Their lies could drag you down to their world..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The only time lying girls really piss me off is when I think she's not lying. Women lie about everything and anything. Their sexual history, how attractive they think they are, their ambitions, their age, their opinion of you etc.
 
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DJnoob said:
Would u guys say? Have you guys met any hardcore liars? Their lies could drag you down to their world..
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Try Politicians, most of who are male.

This post reeks of misogyny.

I have met liars, every single human being is a liar, I lie now and again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had a girlfriend briefly in college who told me her family was fabulously rich, lived in a mansion, and sent her thousands of dollars every month for whatever she wanted. She said her Dad invented Tyvek for Du Pont. We were at an expensive private school and I actually did have a lot of friends whose families were very rich. She seemed to believe what she was saying, so I believed her. Plus the sex was distracting. Then she stole a credit card out of my wallet and made $400 worth of phone calls to her ex-boyfriend. Later I met her sister, who apologized profusely and told me her sister was a compulsive liar; all of the stories were made up.
 
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Yes Ive heard all the lies.

After STD test: "Thank god Im clean"
After sleeping with 2 guys behind my back: "There is no one else I would never do that to you"
Well these are just lies I can solidly remember, pretty much they lie so much you just think it's background noise.
 
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Female deception exists in several layers.

Makeup
Plastic Surgery
(all essentially lies, just like giving yourself fake pecs)

What she says she wants, is never what she really wants. (i'm looking for a nice guy...)

Relationship lies. (he's just a friend...)

Straight up lies (i'm going out with the girls tonight...)
 
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men lie more, but women tell bigger lies.

here's the difference:
"no honey, you don't look fat in that dress." versus "the kid is yours."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SgtSplacker said:
Female deception exists in several layers.

Makeup
Plastic Surgery
(all essentially lies, just like giving yourself fake pecs)

What she says she wants, is never what she really wants. (i'm looking for a nice guy...)

Relationship lies. (he's just a friend...)

Straight up lies (i'm going out with the girls tonight...)
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You forget AFCdom is the ultimate lie. Men are not as nice nor as giving as they portray.
 
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hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
 
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djgirl said:
hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
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ever lived with a womn, she gives birth to 'your ' child.and it isnt? no me neither, but 10 % of men do, how does that compare?
 
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hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
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Would I be a liar if I said you had a perfect grasp of English grammar and punctuation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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they been liars since the beginning of time, but they also can be easily deceived, so it really balances out.

Don't believe me? Look at the single mom rates in the U.S
 
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JohnChops said:
women lie... men lie.... yogotti :p. But seriously everyone lies, some people do it more than others. It not gender dependent.
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Thank you!!
 
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women lie... men lie.... yogotti :p. But seriously everyone lies, some people do it more than others. It not gender dependent.
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Not according to all the bitter men and women in the world, who blame others for their own misfortune in life and who have a couple of bad incidents with the opposite sex and then hurl out all of the old gender stereotypes about.

We all lie from time to time, it's those who harp on about liars the most who are usually some of the biggest liars themselves.
 
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perseverance said:
Not according to all the bitter men and women in the world, who blame others for their own misfortune in life and who have a couple of bad incidents with the opposite sex and then hurl out all of the old gender stereotypes about.

We all lie from time to time, it's those who harp on about liars the most who are usually some of the biggest liars themselves.
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sure like those people have never lied before in their life ... *sarcasm
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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