"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women are the biggest liars.. deceiving

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Would u guys say? Have you guys met any hardcore liars? Their lies could drag you down to their world..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The only time lying girls really piss me off is when I think she's not lying. Women lie about everything and anything. Their sexual history, how attractive they think they are, their ambitions, their age, their opinion of you etc.
 
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DJnoob said:
Would u guys say? Have you guys met any hardcore liars? Their lies could drag you down to their world..
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Try Politicians, most of who are male.

This post reeks of misogyny.

I have met liars, every single human being is a liar, I lie now and again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I had a girlfriend briefly in college who told me her family was fabulously rich, lived in a mansion, and sent her thousands of dollars every month for whatever she wanted. She said her Dad invented Tyvek for Du Pont. We were at an expensive private school and I actually did have a lot of friends whose families were very rich. She seemed to believe what she was saying, so I believed her. Plus the sex was distracting. Then she stole a credit card out of my wallet and made $400 worth of phone calls to her ex-boyfriend. Later I met her sister, who apologized profusely and told me her sister was a compulsive liar; all of the stories were made up.
 
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Yes Ive heard all the lies.

After STD test: "Thank god Im clean"
After sleeping with 2 guys behind my back: "There is no one else I would never do that to you"
Well these are just lies I can solidly remember, pretty much they lie so much you just think it's background noise.
 
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Female deception exists in several layers.

Makeup
Plastic Surgery
(all essentially lies, just like giving yourself fake pecs)

What she says she wants, is never what she really wants. (i'm looking for a nice guy...)

Relationship lies. (he's just a friend...)

Straight up lies (i'm going out with the girls tonight...)
 
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men lie more, but women tell bigger lies.

here's the difference:
"no honey, you don't look fat in that dress." versus "the kid is yours."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SgtSplacker said:
Female deception exists in several layers.

Makeup
Plastic Surgery
(all essentially lies, just like giving yourself fake pecs)

What she says she wants, is never what she really wants. (i'm looking for a nice guy...)

Relationship lies. (he's just a friend...)

Straight up lies (i'm going out with the girls tonight...)
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You forget AFCdom is the ultimate lie. Men are not as nice nor as giving as they portray.
 
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hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
 
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djgirl said:
hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
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ever lived with a womn, she gives birth to 'your ' child.and it isnt? no me neither, but 10 % of men do, how does that compare?
 
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hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
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Would I be a liar if I said you had a perfect grasp of English grammar and punctuation?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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they been liars since the beginning of time, but they also can be easily deceived, so it really balances out.

Don't believe me? Look at the single mom rates in the U.S
 
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JohnChops said:
women lie... men lie.... yogotti :p. But seriously everyone lies, some people do it more than others. It not gender dependent.
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Thank you!!
 
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JohnChops said:
women lie... men lie.... yogotti :p. But seriously everyone lies, some people do it more than others. It not gender dependent.
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Not according to all the bitter men and women in the world, who blame others for their own misfortune in life and who have a couple of bad incidents with the opposite sex and then hurl out all of the old gender stereotypes about.

We all lie from time to time, it's those who harp on about liars the most who are usually some of the biggest liars themselves.
 
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perseverance said:
Not according to all the bitter men and women in the world, who blame others for their own misfortune in life and who have a couple of bad incidents with the opposite sex and then hurl out all of the old gender stereotypes about.

We all lie from time to time, it's those who harp on about liars the most who are usually some of the biggest liars themselves.
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sure like those people have never lied before in their life ... *sarcasm
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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