Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women are the biggest liars.. deceiving

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Would u guys say? Have you guys met any hardcore liars? Their lies could drag you down to their world..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The only time lying girls really piss me off is when I think she's not lying. Women lie about everything and anything. Their sexual history, how attractive they think they are, their ambitions, their age, their opinion of you etc.
 
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DJnoob said:
Would u guys say? Have you guys met any hardcore liars? Their lies could drag you down to their world..
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Try Politicians, most of who are male.

This post reeks of misogyny.

I have met liars, every single human being is a liar, I lie now and again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I had a girlfriend briefly in college who told me her family was fabulously rich, lived in a mansion, and sent her thousands of dollars every month for whatever she wanted. She said her Dad invented Tyvek for Du Pont. We were at an expensive private school and I actually did have a lot of friends whose families were very rich. She seemed to believe what she was saying, so I believed her. Plus the sex was distracting. Then she stole a credit card out of my wallet and made $400 worth of phone calls to her ex-boyfriend. Later I met her sister, who apologized profusely and told me her sister was a compulsive liar; all of the stories were made up.
 
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Yes Ive heard all the lies.

After STD test: "Thank god Im clean"
After sleeping with 2 guys behind my back: "There is no one else I would never do that to you"
Well these are just lies I can solidly remember, pretty much they lie so much you just think it's background noise.
 
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Female deception exists in several layers.

Makeup
Plastic Surgery
(all essentially lies, just like giving yourself fake pecs)

What she says she wants, is never what she really wants. (i'm looking for a nice guy...)

Relationship lies. (he's just a friend...)

Straight up lies (i'm going out with the girls tonight...)
 
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men lie more, but women tell bigger lies.

here's the difference:
"no honey, you don't look fat in that dress." versus "the kid is yours."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SgtSplacker said:
Female deception exists in several layers.

Makeup
Plastic Surgery
(all essentially lies, just like giving yourself fake pecs)

What she says she wants, is never what she really wants. (i'm looking for a nice guy...)

Relationship lies. (he's just a friend...)

Straight up lies (i'm going out with the girls tonight...)
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You forget AFCdom is the ultimate lie. Men are not as nice nor as giving as they portray.
 
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hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
 
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djgirl said:
hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
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ever lived with a womn, she gives birth to 'your ' child.and it isnt? no me neither, but 10 % of men do, how does that compare?
 
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hehehe, yes women do lie BUT wait a minute....Men are innocent? dont think so....Ive had tons of guys feed me bullsh1t stories to impress me or get in my panties....We all lie no escaping it, male or female
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Would I be a liar if I said you had a perfect grasp of English grammar and punctuation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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they been liars since the beginning of time, but they also can be easily deceived, so it really balances out.

Don't believe me? Look at the single mom rates in the U.S
 
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JohnChops said:
women lie... men lie.... yogotti :p. But seriously everyone lies, some people do it more than others. It not gender dependent.
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Thank you!!
 
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JohnChops said:
women lie... men lie.... yogotti :p. But seriously everyone lies, some people do it more than others. It not gender dependent.
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Not according to all the bitter men and women in the world, who blame others for their own misfortune in life and who have a couple of bad incidents with the opposite sex and then hurl out all of the old gender stereotypes about.

We all lie from time to time, it's those who harp on about liars the most who are usually some of the biggest liars themselves.
 
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perseverance said:
Not according to all the bitter men and women in the world, who blame others for their own misfortune in life and who have a couple of bad incidents with the opposite sex and then hurl out all of the old gender stereotypes about.

We all lie from time to time, it's those who harp on about liars the most who are usually some of the biggest liars themselves.
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sure like those people have never lied before in their life ... *sarcasm
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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