"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Women are simple
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why you ask? Because it does not belong to this board.
It talks about just "reproducing" and that all of our ancestors had sex. It talks about the fact that 300 years ago all of the people had sex too.
This is wrong.
Ok, my "ancestor monkey" had sex. But it had sex only because it was the alpha male. When my ancestor monkey had sex, 99 other monkey didn't and died. And it repeats every generation.
We are striving to get the best, the top quality chicks. Not a chick to bonk.
When you want to do that, it gets complicated.
And the stuff about the quantum mechanics is BS.
Tictac
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The last reply to this thread was 6 years ago. Yet it is among a handful of I have read here that gets at what a DJ is. I found it referenced while reading Anti-Dump's Machine (thanks Pook!) also a classic into DJ fundamentals.
We all get tied up in the apparent finesse in tactics. And in that effort, we get lost. I find this in my career and in my life.
I work with financial wizards (Master of the Universe types) that design financial products that make them tons of money while (too often) wrecking their clients (and since 2007 clearly able to wreck the global financial system). Yet, I run circles around them in helping my clients get what they need. I do this by distilling what the client needs and then using that knowledge to leverage the wizards into giving me what we want rather than what they have to sell. Not one of my has been damaged by the financial events of the past 2 years. And that is because I made sure that we had our fundamentals down and in constant focus as we built the financial structures to advance our needs.
SS is teaching me that this can be done with women, relationships and foremost how to be a good man rather than a nice guy or a jerk.
This board needs more, not less, of 'how to be' as opposed to 'how to do'. It needs both of course. I'm as much into 'tips, tricks & traps' as the next guy (God knows, I was a huge chump and it cost me near everything). But action based upon tactics alone is a 'doom loop'. It cannot stand. Likewise theory that is untried is just fluff. SS has moved me from the stands and into the game. But no game, from tic-tac-toe to life itself can be approached much less 'won' without knowledge and tactics or lots of practice. But the practice needs to be on the fundamentals.
Thanks to those of you that think enough of yourselves, each other, board participants (and espcially women) to study, theorize, hypothesize and test the deep currents.
Strength, Courage, Fidelity,
Tictac
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Lol, I swear there are a lot of guys on this forum who believe this.Think. In that 2.7 billion years, nobody perfected the process of getting women until these past few years? Imagine the odds of that.
Anyway, old post but a good post.
It ain't a game if one lives and breaths it.
It's only a game when you choose to enter it and then choose to leave it when it suits you = these are the fakes, those weak men that puts on a mask.
There should be no games uber, either you are it or you aren't.
Frame is everything.
Think about it for a minute. if everybody was obsessed with dominating as you are we would be living under the third Reich.
Personally I prefer a wider world with a few more possibilities.
You actually seem like a smart guy but there s no possibility of discussion because you use this binary filter all the time.
Your way is the only way. and anybody who thinks differently is a weak / passive /submissive/insult du jour man.
you can't discuss anything with somebody who is only going to shout slogans and insults
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.