"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Women are simple
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why you ask? Because it does not belong to this board.
It talks about just "reproducing" and that all of our ancestors had sex. It talks about the fact that 300 years ago all of the people had sex too.
This is wrong.
Ok, my "ancestor monkey" had sex. But it had sex only because it was the alpha male. When my ancestor monkey had sex, 99 other monkey didn't and died. And it repeats every generation.
We are striving to get the best, the top quality chicks. Not a chick to bonk.
When you want to do that, it gets complicated.
And the stuff about the quantum mechanics is BS.
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The last reply to this thread was 6 years ago. Yet it is among a handful of I have read here that gets at what a DJ is. I found it referenced while reading Anti-Dump's Machine (thanks Pook!) also a classic into DJ fundamentals.
We all get tied up in the apparent finesse in tactics. And in that effort, we get lost. I find this in my career and in my life.
I work with financial wizards (Master of the Universe types) that design financial products that make them tons of money while (too often) wrecking their clients (and since 2007 clearly able to wreck the global financial system). Yet, I run circles around them in helping my clients get what they need. I do this by distilling what the client needs and then using that knowledge to leverage the wizards into giving me what we want rather than what they have to sell. Not one of my has been damaged by the financial events of the past 2 years. And that is because I made sure that we had our fundamentals down and in constant focus as we built the financial structures to advance our needs.
SS is teaching me that this can be done with women, relationships and foremost how to be a good man rather than a nice guy or a jerk.
This board needs more, not less, of 'how to be' as opposed to 'how to do'. It needs both of course. I'm as much into 'tips, tricks & traps' as the next guy (God knows, I was a huge chump and it cost me near everything). But action based upon tactics alone is a 'doom loop'. It cannot stand. Likewise theory that is untried is just fluff. SS has moved me from the stands and into the game. But no game, from tic-tac-toe to life itself can be approached much less 'won' without knowledge and tactics or lots of practice. But the practice needs to be on the fundamentals.
Thanks to those of you that think enough of yourselves, each other, board participants (and espcially women) to study, theorize, hypothesize and test the deep currents.
Strength, Courage, Fidelity,
Tictac
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Lol, I swear there are a lot of guys on this forum who believe this.Think. In that 2.7 billion years, nobody perfected the process of getting women until these past few years? Imagine the odds of that.
Anyway, old post but a good post.
It ain't a game if one lives and breaths it.
It's only a game when you choose to enter it and then choose to leave it when it suits you = these are the fakes, those weak men that puts on a mask.
There should be no games uber, either you are it or you aren't.
Frame is everything.
Think about it for a minute. if everybody was obsessed with dominating as you are we would be living under the third Reich.
Personally I prefer a wider world with a few more possibilities.
You actually seem like a smart guy but there s no possibility of discussion because you use this binary filter all the time.
Your way is the only way. and anybody who thinks differently is a weak / passive /submissive/insult du jour man.
you can't discuss anything with somebody who is only going to shout slogans and insults
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.