"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women are simple
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why you ask? Because it does not belong to this board.
It talks about just "reproducing" and that all of our ancestors had sex. It talks about the fact that 300 years ago all of the people had sex too.
This is wrong.
Ok, my "ancestor monkey" had sex. But it had sex only because it was the alpha male. When my ancestor monkey had sex, 99 other monkey didn't and died. And it repeats every generation.
We are striving to get the best, the top quality chicks. Not a chick to bonk.
When you want to do that, it gets complicated.
And the stuff about the quantum mechanics is BS.
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The last reply to this thread was 6 years ago. Yet it is among a handful of I have read here that gets at what a DJ is. I found it referenced while reading Anti-Dump's Machine (thanks Pook!) also a classic into DJ fundamentals.
We all get tied up in the apparent finesse in tactics. And in that effort, we get lost. I find this in my career and in my life.
I work with financial wizards (Master of the Universe types) that design financial products that make them tons of money while (too often) wrecking their clients (and since 2007 clearly able to wreck the global financial system). Yet, I run circles around them in helping my clients get what they need. I do this by distilling what the client needs and then using that knowledge to leverage the wizards into giving me what we want rather than what they have to sell. Not one of my has been damaged by the financial events of the past 2 years. And that is because I made sure that we had our fundamentals down and in constant focus as we built the financial structures to advance our needs.
SS is teaching me that this can be done with women, relationships and foremost how to be a good man rather than a nice guy or a jerk.
This board needs more, not less, of 'how to be' as opposed to 'how to do'. It needs both of course. I'm as much into 'tips, tricks & traps' as the next guy (God knows, I was a huge chump and it cost me near everything). But action based upon tactics alone is a 'doom loop'. It cannot stand. Likewise theory that is untried is just fluff. SS has moved me from the stands and into the game. But no game, from tic-tac-toe to life itself can be approached much less 'won' without knowledge and tactics or lots of practice. But the practice needs to be on the fundamentals.
Thanks to those of you that think enough of yourselves, each other, board participants (and espcially women) to study, theorize, hypothesize and test the deep currents.
Strength, Courage, Fidelity,
Tictac
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Lol, I swear there are a lot of guys on this forum who believe this.Think. In that 2.7 billion years, nobody perfected the process of getting women until these past few years? Imagine the odds of that.
Anyway, old post but a good post.
It ain't a game if one lives and breaths it.
It's only a game when you choose to enter it and then choose to leave it when it suits you = these are the fakes, those weak men that puts on a mask.
There should be no games uber, either you are it or you aren't.
Frame is everything.
Think about it for a minute. if everybody was obsessed with dominating as you are we would be living under the third Reich.
Personally I prefer a wider world with a few more possibilities.
You actually seem like a smart guy but there s no possibility of discussion because you use this binary filter all the time.
Your way is the only way. and anybody who thinks differently is a weak / passive /submissive/insult du jour man.
you can't discuss anything with somebody who is only going to shout slogans and insults
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.