"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women are not men (n we miss that)

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sherineo

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I'm just going to quote an example here...

Point 1. The way a guy sees a gay guy...or calling somebody gay would be a thing of disrespect...

But When a guy sees a hot chic but later finds out that she's a lesbian...he'd not look at her with disrespect...

He'd find that challenging...

Disclaimer:
By stating this point I do not intend any disrespect towards any sexual orientation but just talking in generalities...

Just a Thought:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wouldn't look at a lesbian as a challenge nor would I show her any respect. She is what she is, but I'm not going to bow down to her becasue she has her licker license, nor am I going to waste my time trying to date her. You sound like kind of a politically correct dolt.
 
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I see what you mean. We see a gay guy and think its gross. We see two hot chicks making out and ect we think its hot.
 
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and similarly women wouldn't see a gay guy as gross but as a challenge...(to convert him...or awaken his sexuality)
 
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What the hell?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some studies I read in undergrad said that both men and women were generally turned on by lesbian porn yet neither were generally turned on by gay male porn. These studies measured biological responses rather than survey data and were published in peer reviewed journals, I'm sure one could find some of them with a little effort if interested in the gory details. This confirms a couple of things, people are biologically predisposed or socially conditioned to respond to female on female contact and that most men are not gay :)
 
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