"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women are not men (n we miss that)

sherineo

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I'm just going to quote an example here...

Point 1. The way a guy sees a gay guy...or calling somebody gay would be a thing of disrespect...

But When a guy sees a hot chic but later finds out that she's a lesbian...he'd not look at her with disrespect...

He'd find that challenging...

Disclaimer:
By stating this point I do not intend any disrespect towards any sexual orientation but just talking in generalities...


Just a Thought:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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justiceseeker

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I wouldn't look at a lesbian as a challenge nor would I show her any respect. She is what she is, but I'm not going to bow down to her becasue she has her licker license, nor am I going to waste my time trying to date her. You sound like kind of a politically correct dolt.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I see what you mean. We see a gay guy and think its gross. We see two hot chicks making out and ect we think its hot.
 

sherineo

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and similarly women wouldn't see a gay guy as gross but as a challenge...(to convert him...or awaken his sexuality)
 

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What the hell?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some studies I read in undergrad said that both men and women were generally turned on by lesbian porn yet neither were generally turned on by gay male porn. These studies measured biological responses rather than survey data and were published in peer reviewed journals, I'm sure one could find some of them with a little effort if interested in the gory details. This confirms a couple of things, people are biologically predisposed or socially conditioned to respond to female on female contact and that most men are not gay :)
 
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